Colton Underwood is embracing fatherhood and living his best life with his husband, Jordan C. Brown, and their five-month-old son, Bishop Colton. The former The Bachelor star, who came out as gay in 2021, shared his excitement about his new role as a dad during the 33rd annual Elton JohnAIDS Foundation Academy Awards Viewing Party in Los Angeles.
Speaking to PRIDE, Underwood reflected on the joy he’s found in fatherhood, expressing how natural it feels to raise his son with Brown. “I was born to be a dad and daddy, whatever you want to call it. We’re figuring out our titles still! Dad, daddy, pops… all of the labels,” Underwood said. “Hopefully, there’s more little ones in our future. It’s been the best thing that’s ever happened to us. It’s a dream come true.”
As Underwood and Brown navigate their new life as parents, the couple is enjoying their growing family and the new dynamic that comes with it. Despite the joys of parenthood, Underwood emphasized that he’s also making time for self-care, balancing his responsibilities as a father and husband with his own well-being.
“I have an incredible partner who loves and supports me and makes me feel good,” Underwood explained. “Then, I just find random times to take care of myself whether it’s a hot tub, a coffee, a Barry’s Bootcamp workout class, or an Equinox steam room… we’ll figure it out.”
Underwood also shared that he finds moments to unwind and focus on his physical health, which has become a priority for him. He enjoys the flexibility to fit in self-care activities, whether it’s a workout or a relaxing session in a steam room. Many fans will relate to his approach, as he highlights the importance of balancing personal wellness with the busy demands of parenting.
Notably, Underwood’s choice of the Equinox steam room is a nod to a popular self-care practice among many gay men, with its reputation as a social and relaxing space. It’s clear that Underwood is no stranger to enjoying the benefits of both physical activity and relaxation in places like the gym and spa.
Through his journey, Underwood has shown how embracing family life, health, and well-being can coexist, even as he continues to navigate his new chapter as an openly gay man. His openness about balancing his personal health with the challenges and joys of parenthood provides a relatable perspective for many.
As Underwood and Brown continue their journey with young Bishop, it’s clear that the couple is savoring every moment of their growing family while also prioritizing their own happiness and self-care.
Kentucky state Representative David Hale, a Republican, has introduced legislation aimed at overturning a 2024 executive order issued by Democratic Governor Andy Beshear that bans conversion therapy. This controversial practice, which attempts to change a person’s sexual orientation or gender identity, has been widely discredited by medical and psychological experts. Despite numerous opponents testifying against Hale’s bill, the lawmaker insists that his research supports the need for the legislation, although he declined to disclose the organizations that helped him draft the bill.
Governor Beshear’s Executive Order and Its Impact
In September 2024, Governor Beshear signed an executive order that outlaws conversion therapy for minors in Kentucky. The executive order not only prohibits state-funded programs from supporting the practice, but it also calls for licensing boards for counselors to consider disciplinary action against those who engage in conversion therapy. Beshear’s order aims to protect minors from a practice that has been shown to have detrimental effects on mental health.
At the time of signing the order, Beshear emphasized that conversion therapy “has no basis in medicine or science” and cited research linking the practice to increased rates of suicide and depression. “This is about doing what is right and protecting our children,” Beshear said in a statement. “Hate is not who we are as Kentuckians.”
Hale’s Proposed Bill and its Justifications
On February 15, 2025, Hale introduced House Bill 495, a measure designed to reverse Beshear’s executive order. Hale, who is known for his conservative stances, argues that his bill would protect counselors, therapists, and pastors who offer conversion therapy from government interference. He insists that parents should have the right to seek therapy that aligns with their beliefs and the needs of their children.
During a committee meeting, Hale claimed that his bill would protect mental health providers offering “therapy to relieve discomfort or distress caused by an individual’s sex or romantic or sexual attraction.” He further added that the bill would also safeguard practitioners who offer other forms of therapy, including pro-LGBTQ or gender-affirming care. Despite the claims, Hale did not specify which organizations assisted in drafting the bill’s language.
The bill, which was approved in a 15-4 party-line vote by the committee’s Republican members, is now one step closer to being debated by the full Kentucky legislature. Some Republicans on the committee argued that the bill would ensure mental health professionals could offer care that respects both LGBTQ+ individuals and those seeking therapy to change their sexual orientation.
Opposition Voices and Concerns
Numerous witnesses spoke out against Hale’s bill, citing the harm caused by conversion therapy and the damage it can do to vulnerable individuals. Eric Russ, a licensed clinical psychologist and executive director of the Kentucky Psychological Association, testified that the bill “directly threatens the trust between a mental health provider and our clients” by legitimizing practices that are widely considered harmful.
Rev. Brandon Long, an ordained minister and former victim of conversion therapy, shared his personal experience of being subjected to the practice after coming out as gay. He described how conversion therapy had attempted to alter his sexual orientation by blaming it on childhood trauma and demonic influence. “Conversion therapy weaponized sacred pastoral practices,” Long said, adding that it was “spiritual and psychological abuse.”
Chris Hartman, executive director of the Fairness Campaign, an LGBTQ+ rights group, questioned why the committee responsible for overseeing state government functions was involved in passing legislation related to mental health care.
Hale, who said he had found “no evidence” supporting the personal testimonies of those who spoke against his bill, went on to shake hands with several of the witnesses who had opposed it. Rev. Long refused to shake his hand, accusing Hale of dismissing their lived experiences and framing their testimony as lies.
Political Landscape and Future of the Bill
Hale’s bill is part of a broader culture war in Kentucky, where conservative lawmakers have made several attempts to restrict LGBTQ+ rights. In 2023, Kentucky Republicans successfully passed a ban on gender-affirming medical care, though it is currently on hold due to ongoing court challenges. While this ban focuses on medical care, it does not address gender-affirming psychological counseling.
Conversion therapy has been banned in 23 states, and the practice has faced widespread condemnation from major U.S. medical and psychological associations. Research has consistently shown that conversion therapy leads to increased emotional distress, including depression and suicidal thoughts, particularly among LGBTQ+ youth. According to the Trevor Project, nearly 21% of LGBTQ+ youth in Kentucky have reported being subjected to conversion therapy, with 83% of those experiences occurring before the age of 18.
A Divisive Issue for Kentucky’s Future
Hale’s bill comes at a time when Republicans hold supermajorities in both chambers of Kentucky’s legislature, which could threaten the future of Beshear’s executive order. If passed, the bill would reverse the protections set forth by Beshear, allowing the practice of conversion therapy to continue in the state.
As the bill moves through the legislative process, it is clear that the debate over conversion therapy is far from settled. Advocates for LGBTQ+ rights are committed to fighting the bill, while opponents argue that parents should have the freedom to choose therapeutic options that align with their values. With the state’s political climate increasingly polarized, Kentucky’s legislature is set to remain at the center of a larger national conversation about the rights of LGBTQ+ individuals and the role of government in regulating mental health practices.
For those struggling with issues related to conversion therapy, several resources are available, including the Trevor Project (1-866-488-7386) and the Trans Lifeline (1-877-565-8860). These organizations provide safe, confidential support for LGBTQ+ youth and adults.
Tan France, best known for his role as the stylish and upbeat fashion expert on Queer Eye, is taking on an entirely new role in his scripted television debut. France stars as Zubair, the leader of a rival cocaine gang, in the new Hulu comedy Deli Boys, which is creating waves for its bold portrayal of South Asian characters in unexpected roles.
The show, created by Abdullah Saeed, centers on two pampered Pakistani-American brothers, played by Asif Ali and Saagar Shaikh, who must navigate the criminal empire left behind by their late father. Their father, a convenience store mogul, was secretly using his stores as a front for cocaine distribution, and after his passing, the brothers inherit his tangled criminal legacy. Zubair, France’s character, arrives from London in search of his missing cousin, throwing another wrench into the already chaotic lives of the brothers.
“I had, no joke, the best experience of my career doing this,” France said in an interview with Entertainment Weekly ahead of the show’s premiere. “This challenged me in ways that I never expected.”
For France, the role of Zubair marks a dramatic departure from his beloved Queer Eye persona. In addition to diving into a darker character, France also got to showcase some physicality in the role, including performing his own stunts. In one memorable scene, he engages in a fight with his costar, Poorna Jagannathan, where he shows off his boxing skills—a hobby he’s practiced since childhood.
“There’s a part where I throw her off the bed and I roll off the bed,” France recalled. “No one knows this, I didn’t want anyone to think I was weak: I really hurt my wrist. I had a bruised wrist for a few days when I went back to Queer Eye. I stacked a load of bracelets, so you can’t see it. But it was so worth it!”
France’s Deli Boys appearance has been a hit with both audiences and his Queer Eye castmates. During a recent stop on their “The Fab Five Live!” tour, France showed his co-stars his episode, leading to a moment of excitement. “They were all in the green room, hooting and hollering,” France said.
At the heart of Deli Boys is the emotional and complex relationship between the two brothers, inspired by Saeed’s own bond with his Pakistani-American siblings. Saeed notes that the central theme of the show is the deep love that underpins the brothers’ connection, even as they struggle with the criminal legacy left by their father.
“The thing that binds brothers, especially in immigrant families, is this deep love that is so fundamental it’s sort of forgotten about all the time,” Saeed told Entertainment Weekly. “That bond is there that will never break.”
France was particularly impressed by the world that Saeed created in Deli Boys, one that features multidimensional South Asian characters. “It gives a window into our world,” he said. “Not the mob boss world, just the fully formed characters—that we are funny, dramatic, angry, that we are full people. I’d never seen anything like that done before. I was really proud.”
Despite the show’s fresh and unique approach, getting Deli Boys made was no easy feat. Executive producer Jenni Konner shared that the project faced multiple hurdles along the way, including the pandemic and industry-wide strikes. Despite the challenges, Konner and her team persevered.
“We went everywhere,” Konner said. “Onyx [Collective, the company behind Hulu’s original content] loved it. No one else did, but we wound up getting really lucky.”
The roadblocks were worth it, she said, as Deli Boys has garnered strong attention and is proving to be a standout show. “It is very hard in this climate to get something made, but I think people respond to a really unique voice, and that’s what this is,” Konner added.
Michelle Nader, another executive producer, noted the difficulty of breaking new voices into the industry today. “There are fewer and fewer opportunities for great voices to break through,” she said. “I think that’s really what is going to be the key to building the business up again, is allowing these new voices in. People are just waiting for something fresh.”
As for France, he’s excited to introduce audiences to a completely different side of himself. He joked that casting directors should “have your people call my people” for more scripted roles. “Everyone expects Tan France to be walking, talking sunshine,” he said. “It’s so rare that you see me without a smile on my face. I am a very jolly person, which drives my castmates insane. I love that the audience will get to see this version of me and hopefully won’t realize it’s me for the first couple of scenes.”
France’s castmates were equally impressed with his performance. “When he walked in on set the first day and had his first lines, I looked at everybody, I was like, ‘He’s a star,’” Nader recalled. “I’m thrilled for people to see him this way.”
Konner echoed Nader’s sentiment, praising France for playing against type. “We know he’s very good at being Tan France, but he’s also very good at being this guy,” she said.
Saeed, too, marveled at France’s transformation into a menacing character. “He played against type,” Saeed said. “I mean, he’s scary. Imagine Tan France being scary.”
A petition demanding that the Trump administration reverse the removal of mentions of transgender people from the Stonewall Uprising page on the National Park Service (NPS) website has garnered more than 25,000 signatures.
The controversy erupted after the NPS updated its description of the Stonewall National Monument, omitting references to transgender and non-binary individuals who played crucial roles in the 1969 riots. In its place, the monument’s description now references only lesbian, gay, and bisexual people, removing the inclusive LGBTQ+ acronym.
The change has sparked widespread backlash from LGBTQ+ advocates, historians, and activists, who argue that it disregards the essential contributions of transgender women, particularly trans women of color, in the fight for LGBTQ+ rights.
Among the most prominent figures erased from the updated history is Marsha P. Johnson, a Black trans woman who was pivotal in the Stonewall uprising. Johnson, along with Sylvia Rivera, co-founded the Street Transvestite Action Revolutionaries (STAR), an organization dedicated to supporting homeless transgender youth in New York City. Johnson’s legacy has been instrumental in shaping both the Stonewall riots and the broader LGBTQ+ rights movement.
Tanya Asapansa-Johnson Walker, a prominent trans activist, led protests outside the Stonewall Inn on February 16, where hundreds of people gathered to demand the restoration of transgender visibility in the monument’s historical account. During the protest, Asapansa-Johnson Walker expressed her outrage, emphasizing the ongoing importance of transgender people in society.
“Trans people have been here since the beginning of time,” she said. “We fought in all the wars. We’re creators, we have families and children. We’re just as much a part of this world as anyone else. We’re here to stay and we will not be erased by a Christo-fascist, neo-Nazi administration.”
The petition, launched by the activism platform Care2, calls for the immediate reinstatement of transgender history on the Stonewall Uprising page. In an official statement, Care2 condemned the removal, accusing the Trump administration of “deliberate harm” by erasing the contributions of trans people like Johnson and Rivera.
The petition’s spokesperson further criticized the National Park Service for erasing the contributions of transgender individuals, calling the move “shocking and unjust.” They argued that by omitting the significant role played by transgender people in the Stonewall riots, the NPS is not only erasing the history of trans individuals but also undermining their foundational role in the broader LGBTQ+ movement.
“At the heart of this erasure lies the legacy of Marsha P. Johnson and Sylvia Rivera, two transgender women of color whose bravery and activism helped launch a movement that continues to this day,” the spokesperson said. “These courageous individuals not only contributed to the uprising but also founded the Street Transvestite Action Revolutionaries, which offered crucial support to homeless trans youth in New York City. The erasure of their contributions from this pivotal moment in history is an affront to the entire transgender community.”
The petition has continued to gain traction, quickly approaching its goal of 30,000 signatures. Care2’s open letter demands that the government restore mentions of transgender people and their role in the Stonewall uprising to the monument’s historical description.
In addition to demanding historical accuracy, the letter emphasizes the importance of preserving this part of LGBTQ+ history for future generations. “Transgender people have always been a central part of the LGBTQ+ movement, and we cannot allow them to be written out of history,” the letter concludes.
The removal of transgender history from the Stonewall Uprising page comes at a time of heightened attention to LGBTQ+ rights under the Trump administration. Critics argue that this is part of a broader effort to marginalize the transgender community and erase their visibility from American history. The incident has also reignited concerns about the erasure of marginalized groups from mainstream narratives, particularly the historical contributions of people of color in the fight for civil rights.
For now, the petition and public outcry continue, as LGBTQ+ advocates demand that the history of the Stonewall Uprising be accurately and inclusively represented, ensuring that transgender individuals are given their rightful place in the story of the struggle for LGBTQ+ equality.
Lady Gaga recently sat down for a revealing conversation with Zane Lowe on Apple Music 1, sharing insights into her upcoming album MAYHEM, her artistic journey, and her excitement to hit the road again. The interview, which took place in New York City’s Lower East Side, delved into her creative process, the evolution of her sound, and how her personal life and relationships have influenced her music.
In the interview, Gaga reflected on her development as an artist and the making of MAYHEM, an album she describes as a culmination of her darker, more introspective dreams. For those eager to hear more, the full conversation is available on demand with an Apple Music subscription. The interview touches on a variety of topics, from her creative vision for the album to her plans for upcoming performances.
MAYHEM: A Record of Artistic Freedom
Lady Gaga’s MAYHEM is not just another addition to her expansive discography—it’s a deeply personal project that represents a return to her roots as a musician. “Something I want my fans to know now, which is why I said I love being Lady Gaga, is I actually returned back to my artistry recently in a huge way of making this album,” Gaga explained. “I put so much of myself as a musician, as a producer, as a songwriter into everything. And that is who Lady Gaga is to me.”
Throughout the interview, Gaga emphasized her desire to be remembered not for gimmicks or image-driven moments, but for her artistry. “Maybe to someone else it might be the meat dress or something that they remember as me. But for me, I always want to be remembered for being a real artist and someone that cares so much about a life of art.”
No Label for the Sound of ‘MAYHEM’
One of the most intriguing aspects of MAYHEM is Gaga’s approach to its sound. While past albums like ARTPOP, Joanne, and Chromatica were defined by specific sonic directions, Gaga purposefully avoided categorizing the new album. “ARTPOP was a vibe. Joanne was a sound. Chromatica had a sound. All different,” she said. “But with MAYHEM, I made the effort to not do that and not try to give my music an outfit… I wanted to allow myself to be influenced by everything.”
Lady Gaga and Zane Lowe. Photo: The Zane Lowe Show on Apple Music 1.
This freedom allowed Gaga to explore a variety of genres and styles, from electro grunge to industrial sounds, creating a diverse collection of tracks. “Some of that influence [from electro grunge] made it onto other songs… like Garden of Eden or ‘Can’t Stop the High,'” she added. The latter, a song only available on the album’s special edition on her website, is an intense electro grunge track that pushes the boundaries even further than some of her previous work.
A Glimpse into the Creative Process
When asked how many songs were written for MAYHEM, Gaga revealed that the process was expansive and intense. “I mean, probably 50. So much music, and we didn’t use it all, but it’s my favorite record in a long time. I feel like it has some teeth,” she said. The depth of her creativity during this period clearly stands out as one of the most prolific phases of her career, resulting in an album that showcases her versatility as both a songwriter and a producer.
Embracing Boring: A New Chapter of Stability
Despite her ongoing journey of artistic exploration, Gaga acknowledged that her life is now more grounded. “After my career took off, I didn’t have a sense of home in the same way… I just was away, and I was kind of untethered,” she explained. However, she expressed gratitude for finding stability and comfort in her personal life. “Now I have gravity, and gravity’s good. And sometimes I joke now and I just will say, ‘I’m boring now, and thank God.'”
This sense of groundedness, she shared, has provided her with a new creative freedom. MAYHEM reflects these inner shifts, representing her ability to channel her dreams and darker fantasies into music. “It’s all in one place, and it’s total mayhem, and it’s completely me, and it’s my gift to my fans,” she added.
The Philosophy Behind ARTPOP*
Looking back at her 2013 album ARTPOP, Gaga described the record as more than just a collection of songs—it was a concept and philosophy that broke new ground in the music industry. “ARTPOP was a very special album to me,” she reflected. “It was not easy listening. It was basically like me going, ‘I’ll do what I want. I’ll do it my way.'”
The album’s unconventional approach to music was part of her artistic statement, a departure from mainstream norms. “It was more of a concept and a philosophy more than it was an aesthetic,” she explained. ARTPOP was all about challenging expectations and embracing artistic freedom, a sentiment that remains central to Gaga’s creative ethos.
Love, Life, and Inspiration Behind New Music
Gaga also spoke candidly about how her relationship with fiancé Michael Polansky has had a profound impact on her music. “I just got much healthier… I have good people in my life. I fell in love with Michael,” she shared. “As a songwriter, you need life to inspire your writing… I needed to go live life to have a full life.”
This new chapter of stability has provided Gaga with a wealth of inspiration, leading to the creation of songs like “Blade of Grass.” Inspired by a simple, intimate moment with Polansky, the song captures the purity of their connection. “I remembered the way his face looked and I remembered the grass in the backyard,” Gaga said. “Those moments, to me, are the essence of life and art.”
Touring and the Excitement of Returning to the Stage
With MAYHEM ready for release, Gaga is eager to return to the stage. “I love being on stage and I enjoy it again at this time in my life,” she said, expressing her excitement about her upcoming performance at Coachella. “I’m firing on all my cylinders again, and it’s super rad. I can’t wait to see my fans, and I also can’t wait to do it with Michael.”
For Gaga, performing has become a more fulfilling experience since finding love and stability. “It is so much more fun to take somebody up there with you, someone that loves you, that knows what you’re capable of in all the various aspects of life,” she said. “Mattering to somebody just for being me, like a girl, that means a lot.”
As her fans eagerly await MAYHEM and her upcoming performances, Lady Gaga is embracing both her artistic and personal growth. With her new album, she is poised to deliver another boundary-pushing chapter in her already illustrious career, while also finding fulfillment in the quieter, more intimate aspects of her life.
Listen to the full episode of Lady Gaga’s interview on Apple Music 1, available on demand with an Apple Music subscription.
Despite the cancellation of Our Flag Means Death in 2024, its passionate fanbase has come together to raise an impressive $85,417 (£66,300) to support queer youth in need. This outpouring of generosity is a testament to the show’s impact on its viewers, even after it ended following just two seasons.
The funds were raised through a craft fair organized by a group of devoted fans to benefit the Campaign for Southern Equality’s Trans Youth Emergency Project. Originally, the fundraiser set a modest target of $5,000 (£3,900) — a goal that was surpassed within the first 11 minutes. However, the community did not stop there. As donations continued to flood in, the total reached $37,000 (£28,900), and eventually soared to the impressive $85,417.
Fans from around the world contributed, showcasing the global reach and heartfelt dedication of the Our Flag Means Death community. The show, which featured a heartwarming and comedic portrayal of a romantic relationship between pirates Blackbeard (played by Taika Waititi) and Stede Bonnet (played by Rhys Darby), gained a dedicated following that continues to support its message, even after the series concluded.
Creator David Jenkins Supports Fundraising Efforts
David Jenkins, the creator of Our Flag Means Death, also contributed to the cause by offering personal items for auction. Jenkins took to social media to share that he would be donating several items to aid the fundraising effort, including a prop from the show: the “Act of Grace” sign, which had doodles by Waititi. This prop became a hot item at the auction, selling for more than £12,000 ($15,300).
Additionally, Jenkins donated a promotional teapot sent out by HBO during the first season’s release, which fetched over $5,000 at auction. His involvement further fueled the fundraising momentum, with fans eager to contribute and support both the cause and the show’s legacy.
A Bittersweet End to a Fan-Favorite Series
The success of the fundraiser comes one year after Our Flag Means Death was officially canceled. Jenkins shared the news of the show’s cancellation on Instagram in March 2024, confirming that the series would not return for a third season after failing to find a new home. “We’ve reached the end of the road, at least as far as this sweet show is concerned,” Jenkins wrote at the time, expressing his gratitude for the support the show had garnered.
However, the show’s fanbase was not ready to let go. In an effort to save the series, fans mounted an extraordinary campaign to secure a third season. This included a massive ad placed in New York’s Times Square demanding more episodes. Additionally, an online petition was launched, gaining more than 87,000 signatures in support of the show’s renewal.
Jenkins later acknowledged the impact the campaign had, saying it was “noticed across the industry” and resulted in “many meetings” about finding a new platform for the show. Though the series did not find a new home, Jenkins expressed optimism for the future. “We won’t say goodbye because we’re not leaving. We’re just taking a breather until next time we can share something together,” he wrote, leaving the door open for potential future projects.
Legacy of ‘Our Flag Means Death’ Continues
While the cancellation of Our Flag Means Death was a blow to its fans, the show’s legacy endures, with its positive impact on queer representation in television continuing to resonate. The series gained a devoted following for its inclusive storytelling, unique humor, and tender portrayal of LGBTQ+ characters, which has only grown since its end.
The recent fundraising success further highlights how the Our Flag Means Death fan community remains engaged and committed to supporting causes close to their hearts, even after the show’s conclusion. As these fans rally behind the Trans Youth Emergency Project, they are making a tangible difference for those in need, showing that the spirit of the show lives on in real-world kindness and support.
As for the future, Jenkins’ hopeful message leaves fans with a sense of optimism. Though the series may be on pause, the story of Our Flag Means Death may not yet be over. For now, fans can take comfort in knowing their love for the show has had a lasting, positive impact on the world.
A transgender teen in Iowa made an emotional plea on his 18th birthday at the state Capitol, urging lawmakers not to strip away the rights of transgender individuals. Kayde Martin, a high school senior, addressed lawmakers with tears in his eyes, sharing his deep concerns about the future of transgender rights in Iowa.
“I deeply trouble me that after 18 years of living here with my family, attending school, working, this is the focus of our state,” Martin said, his voice breaking as he spoke against the bill that seeks to repeal civil rights protections for transgender people. His words were a call for empathy, understanding, and fairness.
Martin’s speech was part of a larger effort to stop a law that ultimately passed, making Iowa the first state in the nation to repeal anti-discrimination protections specifically for transgender people. This new law has garnered national attention, as it underscores the ongoing struggle for civil rights within the LGBTQ+ community.
“Good morning, my name is Kayde Martin, and today I speak not just for myself, but for many other transgender youths in Iowa,” Martin began. “I was born on February 27, 2007. Today is my 18th birthday. I stand before you fighting for the same basic civil rights that every Iowan deserves by humanely asking you to vote against this bill.”
Martin, who plans to attend the University of Northern Iowa in the fall, shared his desire to live independently without fear of discrimination. He expressed frustration that some people, particularly those who defend women’s rights, seem to do so selectively, particularly when it comes to transgender individuals.
“I’ve heard some people talk about women’s rights… Why do women’s rights only seem to be defended when it is used to be against the transgender community? Where’s the same outcry when it comes to women’s choices in their own bodily autonomy?” Martin questioned.
Raised in a Christian household, Martin used his faith as a foundation for his call for respect and love for all people, regardless of their gender identity. “A good Christian knows that only the Lord is one to judge,” Martin said, advocating for kindness and understanding over judgment. “Nobody knows the heavenly father’s plan.”
He concluded his emotional speech with a heartfelt plea to the lawmakers: “I want to be able to be the person I was meant to be, and as the person that God knows me to be. Please, don’t take my rights away simply because you disagree with who I am. Being trans is not a choice; it is a reality that you come to when you learn to understand yourself and love yourself.”
Martin called for a civil discourse that would allow for respectful disagreements rather than divisiveness. He expressed hope that Iowans could come together, despite their differences, to avoid further dividing the state.
His plea echoed the sentiments of thousands of people who protested the bill alongside him. Despite widespread opposition, the state’s Republican-dominated legislature fast-tracked the bill, with most Republicans supporting the law along party lines. The bill, which has been widely criticized by Democrats and LGBTQ+ advocates, includes provisions that will allow discrimination against transgender and gender-nonconforming individuals in housing, employment, and credit.
Iowa Governor Kim Reynolds (R) signed the bill into law, defending it as “common sense” legislation. “It is common sense to acknowledge the obvious biological differences between men and women,” Reynolds said during a signing ceremony. “But unfortunately, these commonsense protections were at risk because… the Civil Rights Code blurred the biological line between the sexes.”
However, many argue that the law is not really about protecting women and children, as Republicans claim. Studies have shown that cisgender men—rather than transgender women—are responsible for most of the harm done to women in sports, citing factors like a lack of funding and support for women’s athletic programs. Critics argue that the bill does little to protect women and children but instead targets the transgender community.
Democratic lawmakers in Iowa, including Rep. Aime Wichtendahl, the state’s only trans legislator, condemned the bill. Wichtendahl said that the purpose of the legislation was to “erase us from public life and to stigmatize our existence, to make our existence illegal, to force us back into the closet.” Wichtendahl added, “The authors of these bills wish us every harm,” emphasizing the broader impact this legislation could have on transgender individuals’ lives.
As Martin and other LGBTQ+ advocates continue to push for equality and protection from discrimination, the fight for transgender rights in Iowa and across the country is far from over. The outcome of this legislation in Iowa may set a dangerous precedent for other states considering similar laws, underscoring the need for continued activism and awareness.
Martin’s brave stand at the Capitol reflects the struggles many transgender youth face as they navigate a world that is often hostile to their identity. His message serves as a reminder that the fight for equal rights for all, regardless of gender identity, is ongoing and requires the collective effort of individuals, communities, and lawmakers alike.
Television personality and Bravo producer Andy Cohen is calling out Meghan McCain, a former co-host of The View, for her recent social media post that shared anti-transgender sentiments. Cohen, who is openly gay, took to social media to express his disappointment, questioning McCain’s past support for the LGBTQ community.
The controversy erupted after McCain retweeted a post on X (formerly known as Twitter) about Payton McNabb, a 19-year-old conservative activist who has publicly spoken out against transgender participation in women’s sports. McNabb was invited by former President Donald Trump to be a special guest at his recent Joint Address to Congress.
In her post, McCain expressed her admiration for McNabb, writing, “I have had the pleasure of meeting Payton – she is incredibly smart, strong, and brave. Both she and her family have been through the unthinkable. Democrats defending young women suffering from traumatic brain injuries as a result of trans athletes is why they will continue losing every election.”
I have had the pleasure of meeting Payton – she is incredibly smart, strong and brave. Both she and her family have been through the unthinkable.
Democrats defending young women suffering from traumatic brain injuries as a result of trans athletes is why they will continue… https://t.co/YQf6SVtjAW
McCain’s tweet was in response to ongoing debates surrounding the inclusion of transgender athletes in women’s sports, an issue that has become a political flashpoint in the U.S. However, the phrasing of her message appeared to suggest that Democrats were actively supporting policies that harm women athletes, a point that Cohen was quick to challenge.
Cohen, known for his outspoken commentary and for hosting Watch What Happens Live, responded to McCain’s tweet, expressing surprise over her stance. “Surprised you’re buying into the vilification of the trans community given the real problems happening in this country, your previous ally-ship of the LGBTQ community, and the fact that this non-issue affects about four people in this country,” Cohen wrote in his reply. His comment highlighted his belief that transgender inclusion in sports is being exaggerated in political discourse and that McCain’s position conflicted with her previously demonstrated support for LGBTQ rights.
McCain was not silent in her response, firing back with a tweet of her own. “Surprised you’re okay with violence against female athletes. Payton suffered serious brain damage—just one story,” McCain retorted. “You have my cell, always happy to talk privately or publicly on either of our shows because these conversations are reductive to hash out on social media.”
The exchange between the two public figures drew significant attention, as both have a large social media following and have been involved in public conversations about LGBTQ rights and women’s issues. McCain, who has become increasingly vocal on conservative issues since leaving The View, used the situation to defend her position on women’s sports and advocate for the rights of cisgender female athletes.
Payton McNabb, the activist at the center of the controversy, has been a paid spokesperson for the Independent Women’s Forum (IWF), a conservative advocacy group that has been highly critical of transgender inclusion in women’s sports. McNabb has claimed that she suffered a traumatic brain injury during a volleyball match in 2022 in North Carolina, where a transgender athlete was allegedly playing on the opposing team. McNabb’s injury, she says, occurred when she was struck in the head with a volleyball during the match.
However, statistics suggest that the issue McNabb highlighted may not be as widespread as some argue. According to a report from 2021, over 214,000 female athletes aged 14 to 23 suffered injuries while playing volleyball between 2012 and 2021. Importantly, nearly all of these injuries occurred in games with no transgender athletes involved.
Surprised you’re okay with violence against female athletes. Peyton suffered serious brain damage – just one story.
You have my cell, always happy to talk privately or publicly on either of our shows because these conversations are reductive to hash out on social media. https://t.co/bZiaVIxJSR
The issue of transgender athletes has become a central point in the broader culture wars, with politicians, activists, and sports organizations clashing over how to ensure fairness in competition. In February, former President Trump signed an executive order titled “No Men in Women’s Sports,” which sought to prevent transgender women from competing in women’s athletic events. The order also threatened to withdraw funding from educational institutions that allow transgender women to participate in women’s sports, citing concerns about the fairness of such participation.
Despite the political rhetoric surrounding the issue, experts have raised concerns about the potential harm caused by framing transgender athletes as a major threat to women’s sports. Many argue that the rhetoric fuels harmful stereotypes and distracts from more pressing issues, such as the systemic challenges faced by female athletes, including inadequate funding, unequal access to resources, and insufficient protection from abuse.
As the debate continues to unfold, McCain and Cohen’s exchange serves as a reminder of the ongoing tensions within the LGBTQ community and among those who claim to be allies but may hold conflicting views. Cohen’s disappointment reflects a broader concern about how conservative politics is influencing perceptions of LGBTQ rights, particularly concerning transgender issues.
This heated online exchange highlights the polarized state of American politics, where issues related to gender, identity, and fairness in sports are increasingly becoming battlegrounds for larger ideological conflicts. Both sides of the debate are unlikely to back down anytime soon, leaving the conversation about transgender rights in sports poised to remain a highly contentious issue for the foreseeable future.
A recent report by The Trevor Project, a leading LGBTQ+ youth suicide prevention organization, reveals significant regional disparities in the mental health and community acceptance of LGBTQ+ youth across the United States.The 474-page report analyzes data from The Trevor Project’s 2024 U.S. National Survey on the Mental Health of LGBTQ+ Young People, encompassing responses from over 18,000 individuals aged 13 to 24.
Regional Variations in Community Acceptance
The survey highlights notable differences in community acceptance and mental health outcomes among LGBTQ+ youth in various U.S. regions:
Northeastern States: LGBTQ+ youth in this region report the highest levels of community acceptance, correlating with lower rates of suicidal thoughts and attempts.
Southern States: In contrast, Southern states exhibit some of the highest rates of anti-LGBTQ+ discrimination and the lowest levels of community acceptance, contributing to elevated mental health challenges.
Midwestern States: Youth in the Midwest experience high rates of suicidal thoughts and attempts, along with significant exposure to physical threats due to their LGBTQ+ identity.
Western States: While Western states offer affirming home environments, they also report some of the highest levels of depression among LGBTQ+ youth.
Mental Health Challenges and Suicide Risk
The survey’s findings are alarming:
39% of LGBTQ+ youth and 46% of transgender and nonbinary youth seriously considered attempting suicide in the past year.
49% of respondents aged 13 to 17 experienced bullying within the past year, with bullied youth being significantly more likely to attempt suicide.
A striking 90% of LGBTQ+ youth reported that recent political events have negatively impacted their well-being.
Approximately 45% of transgender and nonbinary youth or their families have considered relocating due to anti-LGBTQ+ legislation.
50% of LGBTQ+ youth seeking mental health care were unable to access desired services, citing factors like cost, fear of not being taken seriously, and concerns about confidentiality.
Supportive Actions and Recommendations
The report also sheds light on how allies can support LGBTQ+ youth:
Trusting and respecting their identities, including pronouns and gender expression.
Standing up against anti-LGBTQ+ policies and demonstrating support through visible symbols like Pride flags.
Engaging in open dialogues to better understand LGBTQ+ identities and experiences.
Additionally, the survey indicates that LGBTQ+ youth find online spaces and schools to be more affirming than some home or community environments.Higher rates of social and familial acceptance are linked to lower incidences of suicidal thoughts and attempts.
Call to Action
The Trevor Project emphasizes the urgency of addressing these challenges:
“LGBTQ+ young people are disproportionately impacted by suicide not because of who they are, but because of how they are mistreated and stigmatized in society.”
The report serves as a crucial tool for researchers, policymakers, educators, and organizations to implement informed strategies that protect and uplift LGBTQ+ youth, aiming to end the public health crisis of suicide.
Resources for Support
For individuals seeking support or resources, several organizations offer assistance:
The Trevor Project: Provides crisis intervention and support for LGBTQ+ youth. Contact via chat, text (678-678), or phone (1-866-488-7386).
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: Offers confidential support 24/7. Call or text 988.
Trans Lifeline: A hotline staffed by trans individuals for support. Call (1-877-565-8860).
Gabby Windey, star of The Traitors, and her girlfriend, comedian Robby Hoffman, have tied the knot in a secret wedding held on January 11, 2025, in Las Vegas. The couple’s intimate ceremony comes after they fled their California home due to wildfires, finding refuge in the Nevada city.
In an interview with Cosmopolitan on March 5, Windey shared the details of their spontaneous wedding. “Literally cue Rihanna, ‘We found love in a hopeless place,’” she said, reflecting on the events that led to the quick decision to marry. Windey and Hoffman had smelled smoke from nearby wildfires while at home, prompting them to evacuate with their cat, a cherished painting by Hoffman’s grandfather, and Windey’s podcasting equipment. After reaching the safety of Las Vegas, Windey proposed the idea of marriage to Hoffman.
“Robby was literally ready to propose three weeks in, and I’m always the one pumping the brakes, but when something feels right, it just feels right,” Windey explained. She admitted that it was ultimately her idea to tie the knot, making the proposal more meaningful. Hoffman popped the question the next morning with a mini-crossword puzzle, and the couple wed in the same chapel where Kourtney Kardashian and Travis Barker had exchanged vows. They walked down the aisle to the song “HOT TO GO” by Chappell Roan.
Hoffman announced the marriage on Instagram, sharing a post that read, “Ya boy off market for life. I love my wife.” The two had gone public with their relationship in August 2023, when Windey surprised the hosts on The View by revealing she was dating Hoffman. At the time, many were surprised by the pairing, given Hoffman’s reputation as a no-nonsense figure in the comedy world, often known for her curmudgeonly persona.
“I know it seems to people we’re so different, but it gels,” Hoffman told Cosmopolitan. “We have the same core.” Windey echoed similar sentiments, adding, “People are like, ‘How does it feel after you’re married? Does it feel the same?’ And the answer is, honestly, no — it feels better. I feel more committed. This is my wife.”
Despite their unique personalities, the couple’s relationship has been a surprising yet perfect match. The secret Las Vegas wedding marks a new chapter in their journey together, one that began under the most unexpected of circumstances. As Windey continues her journey on The Traitors and Hoffman thrives in the comedy scene, the two are now happily married, committed to each other and ready for whatever the future holds.
