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Pro Soccer Player Appears to Come Out: Says He Was Hacked

Iker Casillas, one of Spain’s top soccer players, appeared to come out on Twitter recently. “I hope you respect me: I’m gay,” said the tweet, from an account belonging to the former Real Madrid and Spain goalkeeper. Unfortunately, this is not a heartwarming story celebrating more visibility within a mostly-straight sport. It didn’t take long before the tweet was removed from Casillas’ account, which he claimed was hacked. “Hacked account. Luckily everything in order,” wrote the 41-year-old player. “Apologies to all my followers. Of course, more apologies to the LGBT community.”

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Iker Casillas Hacked Gay

Whether it was a hacker attempting to defame Casillas, or Casillas himself playing a prank, is unclear. Either way, the tweet was motivated by homophobia. That much is clear. Before the tweet was removed, fellow Spanish athlete Carles Puyol responded to the fake coming-out. “It’s time to tell our story,” he wrote, adding a heart and a kiss emoji. If you’re not in the LGBTQ+ community, you might read this as light-hearted fun. If you are queer, you will recognize this joke as homophobia. One where being gay and intimacy between men is the punchline. One where coming out is an afterthought. A joke.

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We Are Not A Punchline

Coming out isn’t a joke. It’s a painstaking process, often brought on by years of anguish. For some of us—especially those living in progressive countries and accepting communities with loving families—it’s not all despair and suffering. Still, it is an incredibly important moment of self-determination. It’s also the beginning of many similar moments. Coming out in school, at work, at church, on uber rides, at your local grocery store, or in your senior living community. Perhaps we can laugh about coming out in some distant future when the practice is rendered obsolete. But that is not a reality for the vast majority of LGBTQ+ folks. For now, coming out is no laughing matter. Particularly not for straight folks.

Despite this reality, many straight people still fail to understand the gravity of these moments. At least not until they have been educated on the matter. After facing a wave of criticism, Puyol took to Twitter to apologize for what he called a clumsy joke. “I have made a mistake,” said the 44-year-old. “Sorry for a clumsy joke with no bad intentions and totally out of place. All my respect and support for the LGTBIQA+ community.” Whatever Puyol’s intentions, the impact of this kind of behavior is very real for LGBTQ+ folks. “Jokes” like these serve as a reminder that most straight men are functionally illiterate when it comes to queerness.

Carles Puyol Homophobia

Beyond Disrespectful

Luckily there were others within the sport who quickly spoke out about it including Jose Enrique, another Spanish soccer player. Enrique says he doesn’t buy that the hacking story is legitimate. “Apologize and recognize the mistake rather [than] lie to everyone,” he wrote.

Out soccer player Josh Cavallo also spoke out against the exchange. “Joking and making fun out of coming out in football is disappointing,” wrote Cavallo, who came out last year. “To see my role models and legends of the game make fun out of coming out and my community is beyond disrespectful.”

Others to weigh in on the controversy include the Spanish Higher Sports Council and Scotland player Zander Murray, who came out in September. We hope that the response to this is an indication of further change for the sport.

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Watch This Epic Love Scene in ‘Interview with the Vampire’

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It’s a story over half a century old. Written by author Anne Rice, Interview with the Vampire hit bookshelves in 1976 and was based on a short story from 1968. Her body of work has always been unapologetically queer. The Vampire Chronicles featured queer characters at a time when we were still relegated to the margins of society. Even when the movie adaptation came to the big screen in 1994 it was shy about including overt queer imagery. Though overall the film was loyal to the source material—the book being the least queer in the series—it was criticized for excluding the queer subtext. The new show, however, is not so shy.

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Now, almost 30 years later, this adaptation will reach a new audience. One that has seen marriage equality pass federally in the U.S. as well as the end of Don’t Ask Don’t Tell. While queer people are still very much marginalized, times have most certainly changed. It was clear from the trailer that the AMC adaptation promised to lean into the queer storyline. Now, upon the release of the pilot, titled In Throes of Increasing Wonder, we can confidently say that they are delivering.

What Is Interview With The Vampire About?

Before we get to the love scene in question, let’s set the scene. Anne Rice’s novel tells the story of Louis de Pointe du Lac who recounts his life story to a reporter. It is soon revealed that he has been a vampire since 1791. Turned by the enigmatic vampire, Lestat de Lioncourt, the pair become immortal companions. We won’t go too much more into it, only to say that the show does appear to depart from the source material a bit here. Most notably, Louis’ story starts in 1910—almost 120 years after it begins in the books. This will no doubt shift the themes explored in the book and alter the story. The show will also be more explicitly queer than the first book, which is a departure we can live with. Particularly since Louis and Lestat’s relationship is canon.

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AMC

Throes of Increasing Wonder

Speaking of their relationship, let’s get to the scene everyone is talking about. We are instantly treated to delicious chemistry between Louis and Lestat. Vampires have long been linked to sexuality, and this show is no exception. Anne Rice has described the act of drinking blood as incredibly intimate, even erotic. When the pair first make this bond, they levitate together in the heat of the moment. We’re certain that detail will lodge itself in some our your minds for quite some time. Un Petit Coup, or A Little Drink—that’s what Lestat calls it. When a Vampire drinks enough to keep themselves fed, but not enough to kill. The experience for Louis was transcendent and unsettling. Mostly because he then had to face something he had long repressed as a Black man from New Orleans in 1910. His sexuality.

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AMC

Lestat and Louis Embrace

Lestat and Louis Interview with a Vampire Love Scene
Louis vowed to never return to Lestat, but the show doesn’t end there. Nor does it shy away from more queer intimacy. After a particularly gruesome moment where Lestat brutally kills a priest and another member of the clergy, he turns Louis. Surrounded by blood and carnage, Lestat drinks Louis’ blood to within an inch of his life. He then offers his blood in return. The description of this scene is as unsettling as it is overwhelming. If you are a fan of Vampire lore this is a scene you will not want to miss. The show is receiving rave reviews and has already been renewed for a second season. Why not pop by AMC for a little drink?

Interview with the Vampire airs Sundays at 10 p.m. ET on AMC and streams online with AMC.

When This Overwatch Character Came Out Players Rejected Him

A recent report published in Scientific American is shedding light on the kind of homophobia many straight gamers participate in. This specific report focused mainly on those who play Overwatch. Though almost every gaymer has seen their fair share of overt homophobia in online gaming, this report also goes deeper. What decisions are straight gamers making that tacitly uphold homophobia, and what does it mean for the future of gaming?

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Bursting The Bubble

The problem with being chronically online—something many of you may relate to—is that it can lead to bubbles. Unless you’re actively making moves to consume content outside of your comfort zone, you’re likely in an online bubble right now. That’s how these algorithms work. It’s not always a bad thing either. Safe, queer online spaces are crucial for queer online wellness. The side effect of this is queer people can begin to lose sight of the forest for the trees. We start to believe that the world we live in is inherently more tolerant than it is. But these “worlds” are artificially created for us, and to some extent by us.

The truth is the world is still rampant with homophobia. Over the past century, LGBTQ+ folks have undeniably experienced one of the most remarkable social shifts in both scale and speed. Though the effects of this upward momentum, particularly in Europe, North America, and South America are very real, looks can be deceiving. What is happening behind closed doors? What conversations are happening when queer people aren’t around, or in spaces where queer people hold very little power and influence?

The Truth Comes Out

Any queer person can tell you that homophobia is still alive and well, and transphobia has much of the west in a choke-hold. You don’t have to take our word on it either. A recent report published in Scientific American pulled back the curtain on homophobia in gaming. The report shows that when a character in a video game comes out as gay, fewer people play as that character. The character the report focuses on is the Overwatch damage character, Soldier: 76.

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Blizzard Entertainment

Overwatch, or more recently Overwatch 2, is a team-based multiplayer first-person shooter. Also called a “hero shooter,” the game divides every character into roles based on their unique abilities. Players select their hero and battle it out to complete map-specific objectives. Since its inception, the game has had a notable LGBTQ+ audience. This may, in part, have led to Soldier: 76 coming out in 2019. Blizzard, the game’s developers, opted to tell the story of Overwatch in pieces over the lifespan of the game. When it was revealed that Soldier: 76 was gay through a short story called Bastet, he had already carved out quite a large space as a preferred character. That would soon change.

Not On My Overwatch

As the news about Soldier: 76 spread, the frequency with which players chose to play him dropped dramatically. Though most users claimed they didn’t see the character differently after he came out, there’s more to the story. Some players also said they stopped playing Soldier: 76 because of harassment. They explained that when they played as him they were now being targeted with homophobic slurs and harassment. It’s important to mention that storylines like the one in Bastet have no impact on the game whatsoever.

Soldier: 76 Overwatch Gay
Blizzard Entertainment

The report went even further, with some players explaining that they were more comfortable playing as Tracer than Soldier: 76. Blizzard confirmed that Tracer was a lesbian in the holiday comic Tracer: Reflections. Participants said they felt that “other players see lesbians as appealing and interesting, but that the same players voice disgust toward gay men.”

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There is a lot of homophobia at play here. The outright harassment and slurs coming from bigoted players. The fear of being associated with queerness, and the ability for straight players to simply opt out of harassment. There is also the inherent misogyny and toxic masculinity at play when we compare attitudes toward Tracer and Soldier:76.

Overwatch Soldiers On

Despite all of this, we hope Blizzard continues to include queer characters in its games. Part of welcoming queerness into your art means accepting that not everyone is going to like it. It means understanding that with queer characters comes the responsibility to treat their storylines with care and respect. It means playing the long game and supporting those who need it until you reach your objective.

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Blizzard Entertainment

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‘Mean Girls’ Star Jonathan Bennett Filmed His Mammogram

On Wednesday, Jonathan Bennett wore pink. In honor of Breast Cancer Awareness Month, the Mean Girls star wore pink to a preventive mammogram screening. Just two days after October 3rd, Bennett documented his mammogram at Shin Imaging Center in Los Angeles. “October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month so I’m showing you what it’s like to get a mammogram,” said the 41-year-old.

Who is Jonathan Bennett?

For those uninitiated, number one, are you sure you’re gay? Seriously though, Bennett is best known for his portrayal of Aaron Samuels in the 2004 classic, Mean Girls. Aaron caught the eye of Cady Heron, played by Lindsay Lohan, very early on in the movie and from there he entered our hearts. It’s something of a running joke that all the male actors in Mean Girls eventually came out as gay. Well, Bennett is no exception. Celebrity Page host Jaymes Vaughan proposed to Bennett in 2020, and the couple became the first gay couple on the cover of The Knot.

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Jonathan Bennett and Jaymes Vaughan

This makes Bennett one of three currently out men who are known for their role in Mean Girls. Among them is Rajiv Surendra who played the captain of The Mathletes, Kevin Gnapoor. We also can’t forget Daniel Franzese who played our “too gay to function” bestie Damian. Bennett and Franzese, who have since revealed they came out to each other on the set of Mean Girls, are still friends today. They snapped a photo together as they reunited the night before Mean Girls’ Day.

 

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Get Your Mammogram

Now that you’re all caught up, you can see why we are highly invested in Bennett’s story. The actor was inspired to document his screening after his husband had a scare a few years ago. “With cancer running in both of our families, screenings are important to us,” Bennett wrote on Instagram. The out actor donned a pair of shorts and a bright pink polo as he stepped up to the machine. After he was instructed to remove his shirt, we watch as the machine captures images of his pecs from various angles.

 

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Cupcakes For A Cause

And that was it! Videos like this are so helpful for breaking stereotypes and misconceptions about screenings in general. The clip, which was created with the support of Wicked Good Cupcakes, is a fine example of how male mammograms go down. Wicked Good Cupcakes are helping Bennett raise money for Ellie Fund, which provides essential services for breast cancer patients. For every limited-edition Vanilla Sprinkle cupcake jar sold this month, Wicked Good Cupcakes will donate $1 to the Ellie Fund. We hope that more people are encouraged to get their screening as a result of this and treat themselves to a cupcake to celebrate.

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