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Andrew Ahn Made ‘The Wedding Banquet’ For His Boyfriend – And It Shows

When filmmaker Andrew Ahn set out to reimagine The Wedding Banquet, he wasn’t just updating a classic queer rom-com—he was telling a love story rooted in his own experience. “Yeah, this one was really personal in a different way,” he told Gayety. “I made this for my boyfriend, and we’re in this phase of our lives where we’re thinking about how to grow our family. This question of marriage and this question of having children… So this one feels really close and makes me a little vulnerable in this process.”

Originally released in 1993 by director Ang Lee, The Wedding Banquet broke barriers as one of the first queer Asian films to find global success. Ahn’s version keeps the heart and spirit intact, while adding modern layers of intimacy, humor, and cultural nuance.

This time around, the story centers on Min (Han Gi-Chan), a closeted man who proposes a fake marriage to his best friend Angela (Kelly Marie Tran) to help fund her IVF journey. But when his traditional grandmother flies in for a surprise wedding banquet, the secret spirals out of control.

Ahn leaned into his own experience to guide emotional beats—especially for the film’s couples. “I remember talking to Kelly and Lily [Gladstone] about how people say ‘I love you,’” he explained. “My boyfriend and I have a special way of saying it. I had them create together how they say ‘I love you’ as a couple. And that shows up in the film in this really beautiful way.”

When asked for his favorite line, Ahn lit up: “I really love when Kelly Marie Tran yells, ‘Everything in this house is gay.’ Because I think a lot of queer people would really understand that—we just somehow end up accumulating so many gay things.”

From the artwork to the DVD collection, everything in the film’s home set was intentionally chosen to reflect a queer household. “We worked with our production designer, Charlotte Royer, our prop master. We also worked with our actors to just pull together a house of gay things… It’s a home that I wish I lived in. It’s super cozy queer.”

Backed by a cast that includes Bowen Yang, Lily Gladstone, Kelly Marie Tran, and Han Gi-Chan, Ahn’s The Wedding Banquet is a poignant, funny, and deeply personal story about building the life you want—and the love that makes it possible.

Catch it in theaters on April 18. Watch the full interview with Andrew below.

Jordan Firstman Sparks Style Debate: “Gay Men Dress Worse Than Straight Men”

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Jordan Firstman is no stranger to controversy. The comedian, known for his NSFW film Rotting in the Sun and his cheeky debut single “I Wanna See My Friends D*cks,” thrives on ruffling feathers. But his latest opinion has some gay fashionistas clutching their pearls—and not in a cute way.

Appearing on Kareem Rahma’s online series Subway Takes, Firstman offered a spicy sartorial opinion that left many queer viewers raising a perfectly manicured brow:

“Gay men dress worse than straight guys.”

Yes, that’s the hill he chose to die on.

The “Too Much” Factor

“The gays do a little too much,” Firstman mused, as subway cars clattered in the background. Rahma, dressed like a beige department store mannequin in a blazer and polo combo, nodded in agreement: “Most of the time, my gay kings are not slaying.”

Firstman’s hot take flies in the face of a long-standing stereotype: that gay men are the undisputed trendsetters of modern style. From designer runways to drag ballrooms, queer men have led the charge in redefining what it means to serve a look.

But in Firstman’s view, that legacy has turned costume-y.

“In the ’90s, the media told us we were the tastemakers,” he said. “We were watching Sex and the City like, ‘Honey, don’t wear that!’ And we believed it.”

“Risky” Business or Queer Expression?

The comedian claims straight men keep it simple—think dad jeans and a dusty flannel—while gay men dress like they lost a bet at Fashion Week.

“If you go to the average gay bar,” Firstman explained, “you’ll see someone in a crop top that says ‘I love Björk and bottoming,’ shiny spandex shorts, and Doc Martens. It’s too much!”

Sure, that outfit might not scream “minimalism,” but it does scream queer joy. And frankly, we’d like to scream it from a rooftop with a handheld fan and a mesh crop top.

Fashion Isn’t a Uniform

At the end of the day, queer fashion isn’t meant to fit into a box—it’s about blowing the box up and rhinestoning the debris. Whether you’re donning a harness at Whole Foods or rocking a sheer lace shirt on the dance floor, LGBTQ+ style thrives on individuality.

So if someone wants to dress like a disco ball had a baby with an indie band poster, more power to them. Fashion doesn’t have to be palatable to be valid—it just has to be you.

And if anyone finds that Björk crop top, please DM us. Pride season is approaching.

Kaylah Nunez Talks Chosen Family, ‘The Recruit’ Cliffhangers, and Her Shania Twain Dream Role

If you don’t know Kaylah Zander-Nuñez’s name yet, that’s about to change. With her scene-stealing return as Amelia Salazar in The Recruit Season 2, now streaming on Netflix, the Vancouver-born actor is bringing warmth, wit, and a whole lot of bite to the globe-trotting spy series. But as we found out in our recent conversation on the Pride Podcast, it’s not just the action-packed plotlines or star-studded casts that drive Kaylah — it’s collaboration, nuance, and the power of telling stories that actually matter.

“I think I didn’t realize that that’s not the case for every show,” she says of the rare camaraderie she’s found on The Recruit. “To have so many incredible directors and to have the producers be so respectful, to just have such a fantastic group of people that respects each other so much has been really, really incredible. That’s something I’m going to look for forever.”

Finding Family in the Chaos

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Season 1 of The Recruit introduced viewers to Owen Hendricks (Noah Centineo), a young CIA lawyer who finds himself thrust into a world of espionage, deadly secrets, and political backstabbing. Season 2 ups the ante, sending Owen to Seoul, South Korea, where the threats get even more personal — and potentially more deadly. As his world spins out of control, Amelia Salazar remains one of the few voices of reason he can turn to.

For Zander-Nuñez, the ensemble chemistry isn’t just hype — it’s the soul of the show. Season one bonded the cast in snowy, shutdown-era Montreal, where pandemic restrictions turned their tight-knit crew into a chosen family. “Everything was closed… so all of us had been transferred to Montreal, and we were all just sitting around being like, well, I guess we just have each other,” she recalls. “We had dinners all the time. Every week we were going out and doing fun stuff in the snow — whatever we could.”

Meet Amelia Salazar

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Amelia isn’t your average spy drama supporting character — she’s smart, sharp-tongued, and impossible to ignore. “She’s funny, she’s weird, she’s very direct, she’s strong, she’s smart — she’s a total freak,” Kaylah laughs. “And I loved how they wrote Amelia.”

Despite playing a seasoned CIA attorney, Zander-Nuñez jokes that the job isn’t exactly in her wheelhouse. “I knew almost nothing about being a lawyer or the CIA,” she admits. “I did some research… but there’s an attention to detail and a meticulousness that I don’t have as Kaylah. I think that would make it hard for me to be a lawyer in real life.”

Redefining Representation

A proud Latina and vocal advocate for more authentic representation, Zander-Nuñez is thoughtful — and honest — about the kinds of roles she wants to take. “If the character is going to be Latina, there needs to be some nuance to that rather than just being the kind of sex bot or whatever,” she explains. “I’m tired of playing cops… especially when the cops are the hero. It’s just really not my jam personally.”

She also sees a frustrating gap between what’s shown on screen and what’s happening in the real world. “There’s a disconnect between putting minority performers on screen but over-sanitizing their stories,” she says. “There’s still so much to be done… The hard work of coming to terms with our histories of colonialism, imperialism, and racism — that work, I think, we’re still not seeing enough of.”

Passion Projects and Indie Dreams

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Thanks to the visibility and stability that comes with working on a major Netflix series, Zander-Nuñez is turning her attention to more personal stories. “Doing those bigger streamer shows has allowed me to then take on these passion projects that maybe don’t pay as well,” she says. “To kind of go back and forth between those two categories has been such a blessing.”

Currently, she’s working on a fully improvised short film about two estranged sisters reconnecting on one of the islands off the West Coast. “We’re going to shoot it in a really interesting way… we have this great cinematographer who does guerrilla filmmaking style, so he’ll just stay with us as we go through it. I’ve never worked like that before. I’m excited.”

She’s also writing and directing her first personal film — a short memoir about her time working at Black Dog Video, the last surviving video rental store in Vancouver. “There were rare films that we had there… maybe they’ll never be seen again,” she says. “It’s sad because I think there’s actually a lot of films that got lost in that transition to online streaming.”

Manifesting Shania Twain and Cher

When asked about her dream roles, Zander-Nuñez has two icons on her mind. “For some reason, I have it in my mind that someone somewhere is working on a Shania Twain biopic right now, and I would love to be in that movie,” she says with a grin. “Whatever the roles that Cher got — I want all of those. I actually think she’s a great actor.”

As for her taste in performances? “This kind of muted, mumbly acting that’s really popular right now — I’m not into it,” she says. “I love big, dramatic, expressive performances.”

What’s Next for The Recruit?

While Netflix hasn’t officially confirmed a third season yet, Zander-Nuñez and her castmates are hoping it’s just a matter of time. “We’re in the group chat being like, oh my gosh,” she says. “Owen has sort of gone rogue. He’s not being protected by the CIA anymore, so I think the show could go in a really different, interesting direction.”

Whatever’s next — whether it’s another season of espionage or a totally improvised short film — one thing is clear: Kaylah Zander-Nuñez is doing it all on her terms.

Listen to the full episode with Kaylah here!

Pedro Pascal Is Suiting Up and Serving Looks in Marvel’s ‘Fantastic Four: First Steps’

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Pedro Pascal is back, hotter than ever—and this time, he’s saving the world and starting a family in Marvel’s Fantastic Four: First Steps, hitting theaters July 25.

The beloved Internet Daddy officially joins the Marvel Cinematic Universe as Reed Richards, aka Mr. Fantastic, in a film that promises sci-fi spectacle, retro-futuristic flair, and, of course, plenty of thirst-worthy moments from one of Hollywood’s most adored leading men.

Double Daddy Duty in the MCU

Pascal stars alongside Vanessa Kirby (Sue Storm), Joseph Quinn (Johnny Storm), and Ebon Moss-Bachrach (Ben Grimm/The Thing) as the latest iteration of Marvel’s “First Family.” But don’t expect your standard superhero origin tale.

Set on a “1960s-inspired retro-futuristic parallel Earth,” the trailer skips the backstory and jumps straight into action—with a twist. Reed and Sue are expecting a baby, setting Pascal up for a double dose of daddy duty: one on-screen, and the other as the Internet’s favorite zaddy.

Between the heartfelt family dynamics and universe-threatening stakes, fans are already swooning over Pascal’s mix of intellect, scruff, and superpowers.

A Stellar Cast—and a New Silver Surfer?

The MCU isn’t pulling punches with this star-packed reboot. Julia Garner plays the Silver Surfer, delivering a chilling warning: their planet is marked for destruction by none other than Galactus, played by Ralph Ineson.

Additional cast members include Paul Walter Hauser, John Malkovich, Natasha Lyonne, and Sarah Niles. And in what might be the buzziest post-credits twist yet, Robert Downey Jr. is rumored to return not as Iron Man—but as Doctor Doom.

A Fantastic Year for Our Favorite Daddy

Fantastic Four: First Steps caps off a run of high-profile projects for Pascal, including The Mandalorian, The Last of Us, Gladiator II, and the upcoming Avengers: Doomsday. His mix of rugged charm, emotional depth, and social consciousness makes him one of Hollywood’s most irresistible leading men.

Whether he’s battling Galactus or melting the internet with a smoldering glance, Pedro Pascal is, without a doubt, the hottest superhero dad the MCU has ever seen.

What Orville Peck Discovered by Ditching the Mask in Broadway’s ‘Cabaret’

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Orville Peck, known for his haunting baritone voice, signature fringe mask, and genre-bending approach to country music, is stepping into a new spotlight — and leaving the mask behind. The enigmatic artist is currently starring as the Emcee in the Broadway revival of Cabaret at the Kit Kat Club in New York City, a limited engagement running through July 20, 2025.

While fans may know him best from his critically acclaimed music, including his 2024 duet album Stampede featuring Willie Nelson, Elton John, and Kylie Minogue, Peck is now revealing another side of himself: the trained stage actor. Many were surprised to learn of his musical theater background, but Cabaret marks a long-awaited return to the world of live performance that first sparked his love of storytelling.

“This has been a dream of mine — to do this show, to do this role,” Peck said in a recent interview with Out Magazine. “I just end up having the best time of my life every single time I’m out there.”

From Honky-Tonks to the Kit Kat Club

The Canadian-born singer, who debuted his masked persona in 2019 with Pony, has since cultivated a devoted fanbase with his emotionally resonant lyrics, queer visibility in country music, and stylized performances. His songs have appeared in HBO’s Euphoria and major fashion campaigns, solidifying his place as a crossover icon. Yet, behind the fringed mask was always a performer shaped by the stage.

 

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“I grew up loving musicals,” Peck shared. “I started acting as a kid, and because I sang and danced, musical theater became a natural path.” He recalled watching the 1972 film version of Cabaret as a formative experience. “It was probably the first musical I ever saw. It had a darker tone, characters who were underdogs — it just spoke to me.”

Peck’s connection to Cabaret runs deep. “It’s my favorite musical of all time,” he said. “It’s a story full of complexity, of people who are ‘othered’ and trying to survive in a crumbling world. That always resonated with me.”

Stepping Into Darkness

Set in 1930s Berlin, Cabaret tells the story of a nightclub and its performers against the ominous rise of the Nazi Party. As the Emcee, Peck navigates the show’s transition from glittering excess to chilling political reality — a journey he finds particularly relevant today.

“There are more than a few parallels with the world right now,” he said. “It really made me think about how someone marginalized — someone queer, like the Emcee — could end up aligning with hate or power to feel safe or accepted.”

Peck pointed to the phenomenon of so-called “MAGA gays,” LGBTQ+ individuals who support anti-LGBTQ+ political movements, as a modern counterpart to his character’s journey. “It’s been a fascinating part of the process — understanding the psychology of choosing conformity or assimilation, even when it means turning on your own identity.”

 

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In this revival, Peck brings a uniquely human perspective to a role that is often played as flamboyant or detached. “I didn’t want the Emcee to be a villain or just a metaphor,” he explained. “I wanted him to be someone you recognize. Someone who could be you — if you took a different path.”

The Physical Demands of Broadway

Performing in eight shows a week is no small feat, even for someone with Peck’s performance background. Now 37, he admitted the rigorous schedule has been a shock to the system.

“I haven’t done this in over 15 years,” he said. “I wake up sore every day. But honestly, the love I have for this role, for this show — it carries me through. Even when I’m about to do a second show in one day and feel like I’ve been hit by a bus, I get out there and it’s magic.”

Despite the intensity, Peck calls the experience “hard but easy — in the best way.”

Unmasking Vulnerability

Perhaps one of the most talked-about elements of Peck’s performance is his decision to appear on stage without his trademark mask — a symbolic shedding of persona that took emotional courage.

“It was never a question for me whether I’d wear the mask or not. I knew I wouldn’t,” he said. “But I started to feel nervous before opening night. It felt incredibly vulnerable.” Still, once he stepped on stage, the nerves faded. “I’m just so focused on telling this story. I don’t even think about the mask until the show is over.”

The reaction from audiences has been overwhelmingly positive — and surprised. “People didn’t know I had this kind of performance in me,” Peck said. “There was a lot of chatter about ‘stunt casting.’ But I approached this role with focus and integrity. People have responded to that.”

New Music on the Horizon

Despite his busy Broadway schedule, Peck is already back in the studio working on new music. Performing in Cabaret, he said, is reigniting his creativity and theatrical instincts.

“It’s reminding me of the freedom that comes from being brave enough to express yourself,” he said. “It’s definitely inspiring the new music.”

While he remained tight-lipped about the direction of his upcoming work, fans can expect his signature blend of drama, soul, and showmanship to carry through.

A Full-Circle Moment

Peck’s portrayal of the Emcee is more than just a role — it’s a homecoming. Years ago, he appeared in a different production of Cabaret as one of the Kit Kat Boys and even played the character in the iconic gorilla costume. “Now I get to dance with the gorilla,” he laughed. “It’s all come full circle.”

As he brings fresh depth and heart to one of Broadway’s most iconic characters, Orville Peck is once again proving that he’s not just a voice behind a mask — he’s a multifaceted artist unafraid to evolve, to challenge, and to bare it all.

For tickets and performance information, visit CabaretMusical.com. Orville Peck’s run in Cabaret continues through July 20, 2025, at the Kit Kat Club in New York City.

‘Celebrity Big Brother’ Star Ella Rae Wise Opens Up About Sexuality: ‘I Do Want a Girl Experience’

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Ella Rae Wise, known for her role on The Only Way Is Essex, has shared with fellow housemates JoJo Siwa and Danny Beard that she believes she might be gay. In a candid conversation, Wise expressed her desire to have a “girl experience,” indicating her openness to exploring her sexuality further.

A Supportive Conversation with JoJo Siwa

During their discussion, JoJo Siwa offered supportive words, stating, “They say if you have thought, ‘I wonder if I am gay,’ you are gay.” Siwa, who has been open about her own sexuality, reassured Wise that questioning one’s sexual orientation is a valid and personal journey.

Wise, who recently ended her relationship with TOWIE co-star Dan Edgar, reflected on her experiences, saying, “I have had that thought quite a bit.” She expressed a desire to explore her feelings and hoped to have an “experience” with a woman in the future.

Tensions Within the House

Wise’s revelation adds to the ongoing drama within the Celebrity Big Brother house. Earlier in the season, JoJo Siwa’s partner, Kath Ebbs, faced online harassment from trolls who falsely claimed Siwa was cheating on her with fellow housemate Chris Hughes. Ebbs was compelled to disable comments on her Instagram account due to the influx of negative messages.

Additionally, actor Mickey Rourke faced backlash for making homophobic comments towards Siwa. Rourke questioned Siwa’s sexuality and made derogatory remarks, prompting emotional support from Hughes. Producers issued a formal warning to Rourke, and he was later removed from the house after further incidents of inappropriate behavior.

JoJo Siwa’s Exploration of Gender Identity

In another significant moment, JoJo Siwa opened up about her ongoing exploration of gender identity. She described her feelings as “confusing” and expressed uncertainty about where she stands. Siwa shared that she feels a connection with non-binary individuals but is not ready to label herself as non-binary. Her vulnerability sparked a supportive conversation among housemates, including Danny Beard, who reassured Siwa that she doesn’t need to have all the answers.

The Impact of Reality TV on Personal Journeys

The discussions within the Celebrity Big Brother house highlight the challenges individuals face when navigating their sexual orientation and gender identity in the public eye. Reality television provides a platform for personal stories but also subjects participants to intense scrutiny. The support among housemates, such as the encouragement Wise received from Siwa and Beard, underscores the importance of creating inclusive and understanding environments.

As the season progresses, viewers can anticipate more personal revelations and interactions that delve into the complexities of identity and relationships. The ongoing conversations among the housemates serve as a reminder of the diverse experiences individuals have in understanding and expressing their true selves.

Gabby Windey and Robby Hoffman Just Tied the Knot Legally This Time and You Need to See This Dress

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Gabby Windey and Robby Hoffman have officially tied the knot — for the second time this year! The couple, who started dating in 2023, recently celebrated their legal courthouse wedding just over a month after their surprise Las Vegas ceremony back in January.

On April 15, Windey, who has garnered significant attention for her TikTok content and her role in season three of The Traitors, shared a series of photos from the intimate courthouse ceremony on Instagram. The caption read, “I do thee legally wed!!” signaling their second trip down the aisle in just a few months.

Windey’s fans, especially within the LGBTQ+ community, have supported her for quite some time, and they were thrilled to see her share such a joyful milestone. However, this time around, it’s not just Windey who is capturing attention. Robby Hoffman, a talented comedian who is also making waves on the new season of Hacks, is steadily becoming a favorite among fans as well. In the show, Hoffman plays Kayla, the new assistant to characters Megan Stalter’s Jimmy and Paul W. Downs’ role, offering her own comedic flare to the series.

In her Instagram post, Windey included a carousel of photos showing behind-the-scenes moments from the courthouse wedding, providing fans a glimpse into the special day. The first photo in the series shows the couple smiling while holding hands, standing next to the officiant. Other photos capture the couple sharing a kiss, making silly faces together, and enjoying their wedding cake. One of the more playful images features the couple sitting in the back of a limo, still beaming with joy from the ceremony.

But it’s Windey’s choice of attire that is bound to turn heads. The bride wore a daring see-through micro wedding dress, showing off her bold fashion taste. Meanwhile, Hoffman kept things simple, donning a white button-down shirt over a white T-shirt paired with black slacks, bringing an effortlessly cool vibe to the occasion.

 

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The couple’s journey to marriage has been filled with charm and serendipity. Windey and Hoffman, who first met in 2023, had to relocate to Las Vegas following the Los Angeles wildfires, where they decided to wed in secret. They tied the knot in a small, intimate ceremony on January 11, just a few weeks after they began dating.

Hoffman’s proposal was nothing short of sweet and personal. In an interview with Cosmopolitan, Hoffman shared that she orchestrated the proposal in a unique and nerdy way that had Windey swooning. “I had a friend make a crossword,” Hoffman explained. “I gave him the clues and the answers, and I said it had to say, ‘WILL YOU MARRY ME, GABBY.’” The clever and heartfelt approach was certainly a memorable moment for the couple.

After the proposal, the couple quickly separated to prepare for their Las Vegas wedding, which came together effortlessly. Windey reflected on the day with warmth and joy, saying, “Everything just fell into place so naturally. It felt so serendipitous and so precious and so meant to be.”

For Hoffman, the experience was equally magical. She recalled, “It was the best wedding I’ve ever been to. We got to spend our wedding truly together. We love to be together.”

Though their first ceremony in Las Vegas was private, the couple has since embraced sharing their special moments with fans. Windey’s social media presence has played a significant role in keeping her followers updated on her life, and her wedding journey has been no exception. With these two weddings under their belt, it’s clear that Windey and Hoffman have found their happily-ever-after.

The couple’s relationship has sparked widespread attention, not just for their love story but also for the way they’ve connected with their audience. Windey, who is known for her authenticity and humor, has captured the hearts of many, especially those who admire her bold personality and genuine connection with her followers. Hoffman’s comedic talent and charming presence only add to the couple’s dynamic, making them a fan-favorite pair.

As their journey together continues, Windey and Hoffman are setting an example of how love, humor, and serendipity can come together in the most unexpected and beautiful ways. Fans are excited to see where their relationship goes next — and whether there will be any more wedding celebrations in their future.

Whether it’s a courthouse wedding, a Las Vegas ceremony, or a future event, it’s clear that Windey and Hoffman are a perfect match, and their fans are eager to celebrate each moment with them. As the couple continues to share their love story with the world, it’s clear that their bond is only growing stronger with each passing day.

For now, Windey and Hoffman are enjoying their time together, relishing in the joy of their two weddings and the love they share. And with such a unique and heartfelt journey, it’s likely that their fans will continue to support them every step of the way.

Director Mary Harron Calls ‘American Psycho’ a ‘Gay Man’s Satire’ Targeting Wall Street Bros

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Mary Harron, the acclaimed director and co-writer of the 2000 cult classic American Psycho, has shared her thoughts on the curious trend of “Wall Street bros” and other self-identified “sigma males” who embrace the film’s main character, Patrick Bateman. In a new, extensive interview, Harron expressed her bewilderment at how some men have misunderstood the movie’s satirical themes and found inspiration in its psychotic protagonist.

American Psycho, which stars Christian Bale as the wealthy, narcissistic businessman Bateman, is widely regarded as a biting critique of 1980s consumer culture, masculinity, and the moral decay of the era. However, in the years since its release, a surprising number of viewers, particularly those within the finance and corporate world, have taken to idolizing Bateman, often missing the film’s central irony.

“I’m mystified,” Harron said in a recent conversation with Letterboxd, referring to the phenomenon of “Wall Street bros” who admire Bateman. “I’m not sure why it happened because Christian is very clearly making fun of them.” The filmmaker went on to draw comparisons between the film and other works where audiences misinterpret the intentions of the creators, noting how people have taken extreme actions after misreading cultural texts.

“People read The Bible and decide they should go out and kill people. People read The Catcher in the Rye and decide to shoot the president,” she added. Harron’s comments reflect the broader tendency of some viewers to latch onto the wrong message, even when the context or subtext makes the creator’s intentions abundantly clear.

Harron, who co-wrote the film with Guinevere Turner, explained that she and Turner, who is openly gay, viewed American Psycho as a gay man’s satire of traditional masculinity. In particular, they emphasized how Bret Easton Ellis’s original novel highlighted the homoerotic undertones in the behavior of the alpha male characters, a theme that Harron and Turner were keen to explore through the film.

Harron’s interpretation draws on the idea that the hyper-competitive rituals among wealthy, powerful men—including those in Wall Street environments—are not only indicative of toxic masculinity but also reveal a certain vulnerability and insecurity that is often masked by outward appearances of strength and control. She pointed to the obsession with physical fitness and appearance, which is central to Bateman’s character, as an example of this homoerotic subtext.

“There’s something very, very gay about the way they’re fetishizing looks and the gym,” Harron remarked. “They’re so obsessed with their looks, and Bret [Easton Ellis] could see it and focus on it and underline it.”

This idea, Harron continued, ties into her broader view of male culture in American Psycho, which she likened to the behavior of teenage girls in school locker rooms. She referenced feminist icon Valerie Solanas, who famously attempted to assassinate artist Andy Warhol and who often critiqued the societal emphasis on vanity and competition. According to Harron, Solanas’s view on alpha male culture—“a reversal of alpha male culture”—resembles the dynamics of female adolescence, where insecurity, vanity, and rivalry often play out in highly performative ways.

“Men are prizing their extreme competition and their ‘elevating their prowess,’ but it’s more about insecurity and vanity and the way they gossip,” Harron explained. “The way they talk about each other is like teenage girls in a locker room at school.”

While Bateman, played by Christian Bale, is portrayed as handsome, well-dressed, and seemingly at the top of the social hierarchy, Harron insists that the character is actually depicted as “dorky and ridiculous.” She pointed to several scenes in which Bateman’s attempts to appear cool, such as his awkward references to hip-hop music in a nightclub, are played for laughs and highlight his social incompetence.

“When he’s in a nightclub and he’s trying to speak to somebody about hip hop—it’s so embarrassing when he’s trying to be cool,” Harron said, underscoring the contrast between Bateman’s outward appearance of confidence and his internal emptiness and inability to connect with others.

Despite American Psycho’s clear satirical tone, it’s become apparent that some viewers have chosen to see Bateman as an aspirational figure. This has given rise to the phenomenon of “sigma males,” a term that has gained popularity online and in self-help circles. These individuals, often associated with “alpha” male traits, pride themselves on being self-sufficient loners who reject societal norms and the expectations of traditional masculinity. They are typically portrayed as indifferent to romantic relationships and focused on personal success and productivity—values that American Psycho critiques.

According to GQ, sigma males are often characterized as “self-sufficient loners; they attract extremely good-looking women but aren’t interested in them, and they’re capitalist hustlers,” which mirrors many of Bateman’s traits. However, this interpretation of Bateman is far removed from the film’s true message, which was designed to critique exactly that type of self-obsessed, hyper-competitive mindset.

Looking ahead, Harron is curious to see how future adaptations of American Psycho might be received. Upcoming filmmaker Luca Guadagnino, known for works like Call Me by Your Name and Suspiria, is set to direct a new adaptation of Ellis’s novel. Given the ongoing trend of misinterpreting Bateman’s character, Harron wonders whether the “sigma males” who identify with the character will continue to see in Bateman what they think they see, or whether Guadagnino’s version will help clarify the satire for a new generation of viewers.

As for Harron, she remains firm in her belief that American Psycho is a film that exposes the flaws and absurdities of a certain strain of masculinity, rather than celebrating them. “It was always meant to be a satire,” she concluded. “I just hope people can eventually see it for what it really is.”

Ultimately, American Psycho endures not as a celebration of its protagonist’s behaviors but as a scathing critique of the very culture that Bateman represents—a culture that, decades later, still seems to miss the point.

Wedding Dos and Don’ts With the Cast of ‘The Wedding Banquet’ – “Don’t Bring Your Side Piece”

If you’re going to make a movie about a chaotic queer wedding, you better know your way around one in real life. Luckily, the cast of The Wedding Banquet has plenty of opinions—and they didn’t hold back. Gayety reporter Caitlynn McDaniel asked them about their ultimate wedding do’s and don’ts.

“I’m going to say what a huge do for me is buffet style,” said Bowen Yang with confidence. “I feel like waiting for the courses to come out is just fussy, and everyone gets a little stressed out about it. If you just line up at a buffet, eat your own, eat whatever you please—it’s better than reading off a menu.” When Caitlynn brought up the classic sneeze-guard concern, Bowen replied, “Well now that you bring it up… I think we do glass sneeze guards—Subway style.”

Lily Gladstone added a practical (and relatable) note: “Do let your wedding party choose their own clothes… We’ll never wear the matching one again. Absolutely. Ever.” And for guests planning to party all night: “If you’re required to wear heels, bring a different pair of shoes for the dance floor… Just everybody have an extra pair of shoes.”

Kelly Marie Tran quickly jumped in with support: “Oh yeah.”

And Han Gi-Chan? He stole the moment with a spicy take: “For the bride… Don’t bring your real boyfriend to the picture of the wedding photo.” Lily cackled: “Don’t bring your side piece.”

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It’s that chaotic, rule-breaking energy that fuels The Wedding Banquet, a heartfelt and hilarious new rom-com from director Andrew Ahn. Inspired by Ang Lee’s 1993 classic, the film follows Min (Han Gi-Chan), who proposes a green card marriage to his best friend Angela (Kelly Marie Tran) so she can afford IVF with her partner, Lee (Lily Gladstone). When Min’s traditional grandmother surprises the couple with an over-the-top Korean wedding, the chosen family must navigate clashing cultures, closeted secrets, and the joyful mess of queer love.

With a cast that includes comedy powerhouse Bowen Yang, Oscar nominee Lily Gladstone, and fan-favorite Kelly Marie Tran, The Wedding Banquet is a reminder that life is not always a piece of cake.

See it in theaters nationwide beginning April 18.

‘Love on the Spectrum’ Star Pari Kim Talks Queer Love, Trains, and Internet Fame

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Pari Kim has become one of the breakout stars of Love on the Spectrum season three — and not just for her charming quirks, love of trains, or bubbly personality.

The 23-year-old Boston native made history on the hit Netflix dating series as part of the show’s first LGBTQ+ couple. And yes — she’s still going strong with girlfriend Tina Zhu Xi Caruso.

“It’s going really well with us. I just love her so much,” Pari told The Advocate. “She is really the Amtrak to my commuter. She’s just perfect for me.”

All Aboard for Love

Pari and Tina’s relationship blossomed on screen in the most relatable — and adorably awkward — way. In one viral scene, the pair shyly exchanged thoughts about what it might be like to kiss another girl.

“I always wonder what it would be like to kiss a girl, honestly,” Pari said during the moment. Tina replied, “Yeah. I wonder, too.” The two then stood in nervous silence, sparking a flurry of fan reactions from queer women everywhere who saw themselves in the sweet, tentative exchange.

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Thankfully, the big moment came soon after — during a romantic train ride over a scenic bridge, of course. Tina, ever thoughtful, even avoided gluten beforehand, just in case.

“Princess Charming” and a Train-Themed Wedding?

As for what’s next? The couple is dreaming big — and rail-themed.

“We talked about someday getting married and having a train-themed wedding,” Pari said. “Maybe like, rent out a private Amtrak charter train. A nice vintage steam engine would be really cool, but yeah, it’s gotta have trains in it.”

Pari Kim and Tina Zhu Xi Caruso. Photo: Instagram (@blindsided_in_boston)
Pari Kim and Tina Zhu Xi Caruso. Photo: Instagram (@blindsided_in_boston)

Pari affectionately refers to Tina as her “Princess Charming,” and says the relationship has only grown stronger since filming wrapped.

“I love how we both get so excited together. She’s just the sweetest, and I can always count on her. She keeps me on track — no pun intended,” she joked.

A Viral Star (and Aspiring Transit Influencer)

Since season three debuted, Pari’s life has taken a dramatic turn. Her Instagram account was briefly locked after a flood of new followers — so many that the platform flagged it as suspicious.

“Some fans want to ride the T [Boston’s subway] with me or say they’ve been touched by the show,” she said. “I just love all my fans and I hope they realize how much of an impact they make on my life.”

As a proud leader of the “Railfans” — a friend group united by a passion for public transit — Pari’s dream job would be running social media for Amtrak or Boston’s MBTA.

“I have so many great ideas I want to bring to the table,” she said. “I feel like I have a good creative vision, and they could use more diversity in their teams.”

Representation That Matters

Pari has been vocal about her intersecting identities — both autistic and queer — and says being “unapologetically both” has resonated with fans around the world.

“There’s a lot more of us out there than you think,” she said. “It’s just part of who we are.”

Though some negative comments have surfaced online, Pari isn’t fazed.

“People say, ‘You’re confused’ or ‘Your sister’s a bad influence.’ No — this is just who we are, and we don’t have to change ourselves,” she said. “Just ignore the haters and bullies because they just want to get a rise out of you. There’s always going to be way more people who love and support you.”

Pari hopes she gets the chance to return for season four, and maybe even more projects in TV or film.

“I want to continue telling my story,” she said. “And Tina has so many things she wants to share, too.”

Until then, Pari’s message to the world is simple: “There’s nothing wrong with being autistic or LGBTQ+. I’m proud to be me.”