Archer, the face-forward dating app built for gay and queer men, has launched a major redesign that allows users to clarify their dating intentions with a feature called Looking For Modes. The update — branded to spotlight Hookup, Date, or Friends intentions each time a user opens the app — aims to foster more intentional, authentic connections in the gay dating landscape.

The feature and updated interface stem from findings in Archer’s newly released annual trends report, “The Naked Truth,” which surveyed over 550 users. The findings challenge long-standing stereotypes about gay dating by revealing that many men in the Archer community are seeking more than casual encounters.

Key Insights from “The Naked Truth”

  • Archer users are 5.8× more likely to seek a husband than a hookup.

  • They’re 3× more inclined to pursue a love story over random sex.

  • A healthy 57% of gay singles are open to exploring new things sexually, and 20% have established kink preferences.

  • Top green flags include strong communication skills and emotional intelligence—traits that outrank physical appearance or sexual chemistry.

“Dating within the gay community is all about choice, fluidity, and the freedom to define what connection means in the moment,” said Michael Kaye, Head of Brand at Archer. “The Naked Truth shows us that our users value authenticity and intention. They’re not just seeking endless matches—they’re choosing their own journey on their own terms.”

Introducing Looking For Modes

Responding to these insights, Archer today unveiled Looking For Modes—a tool that prompts users to declare one of three intentions every time the app is opened:

  • Hookup Mode – for casual connections

  • Date Mode – for long-term, romantic potential

  • Friends Mode – for platonic relationships

These modes are further enhanced by temporary status updates like “Looking for now,” “Open to chat,” or “Down to meet,” offering greater clarity and context to others. The redesigned interface aims to reduce mismatches and confusion by giving users control over how their intent is presented.

Sexual Playlists, Bedroom Vibes & City Dynamics

While romance is on the rise, the report also highlights users’ spicy side:

  • The most popular sex playlist described as “chill, vibey, and slow.”

  • For bedroom ambiance, “romantic and sensual” came out on top.

  • Archer dived into sexual role preferences by city:

    • Salt Lake City, Tampa, and Denver led in self-identified tops.

    • Cincinnati, Columbus, and Minneapolis topped the charts for bottoms.

    • Columbus also ranked highest for vers (versatile) users.

App Metrics Reflect Community Engagement

Archer cites more than 30 million messages sent within its community, demonstrating a high level of activity and eagerness for connection. As the platform continues to grow, new features like Looking For Modes seek to empower users to find exactly what they’re searching for—whether it’s love, lust, or friendship.