If you want to feel like you’re in a full-on yapp-off with Reneé Rapp and Gabby Windey about all things gay, this is it. An hour of unhinged sapphic chaos.
In this week’s episode of Windey’s Long Winded podcast, Rapp joins to continue her iconic press tour following the release of her sophomore album, Bite Me.
“A triple threat, an actor, a singer, a doer of the splits,” Windey says to introduce Rapp.
“Believe you me. I’m splitting on that b**ch,” the singer responds. This is the energy going into this conversation.
Gay Friend Groups, Scissoring, and Strap-Ons
Windey then launches into the conversation, asking Rapp how she found her lesbian friend group, to which she answers, “I dated them.” Classic. The conversation then spirals into scissoring, how scary straight men are, being “gay enough,” and so much more. So buckle up, throw on some shades, grab your iced coffee (or refresher…) and get ready for unfiltered convos about strap-ons (with or without balls).
“We need to be sucking strap in the club more.”
Teenage Crushes
“I always felt like I was better than everyone else,” she begins, before diving into a story from when she was 14 and starring in a community theater production of Carrie. Among the cast was a maybe 24-year-old woman who instantly caught her attention. “You don’t look like Mary-Sue who I go to school with.”
Both Rapp and Windey agreed they’ve always loved “the weird ones.” This woman had a ripped shirt, red spiky hair, and the kind of effortlessly cool vibe that burns into your teenage brain forever. Sadly, we don’t know where she is now.
The two also cover astrology, how hot Rapp and her girlfriend Towa are, and crying. It’s a nonstop party. Start your weekend here!
Gabby Windey is best known as one of the leading ladies of The Bachelorette Season 19, where she co-starred alongside Rachel Recchia. Before her reality TV fame, she was a Denver Broncos cheerleader and ICU nurse — yes, she can save lives and serve looks. Since her time handing out roses, Windey has appeared on Dancing With the Stars (finishing second), Traitors, and made headlines in 2023 when she came out as queer, introducing her girlfriend Robby Hoffman on social media (they tied the knot earlier this year).
Reneé Rapp is a rising pop powerhouse and actor with a knack for turning personal experiences into unapologetic anthems. She first broke out on Broadway as Regina George in Mean Girls: The Musical, then won over TV audiences as Leighton Murray on HBO’s The Sex Lives of College Girls. In 2023, she released her debut album Snow Angel, followed by her sophomore album Bite Me in 2025.
