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Wedding Dos and Don’ts With the Cast of ‘The Wedding Banquet’ – “Don’t Bring Your Side Piece”

If you’re going to make a movie about a chaotic queer wedding, you better know your way around one in real life. Luckily, the cast of The Wedding Banquet has plenty of opinions—and they didn’t hold back. Gayety reporter Caitlynn McDaniel asked them about their ultimate wedding do’s and don’ts.

“I’m going to say what a huge do for me is buffet style,” said Bowen Yang with confidence. “I feel like waiting for the courses to come out is just fussy, and everyone gets a little stressed out about it. If you just line up at a buffet, eat your own, eat whatever you please—it’s better than reading off a menu.” When Caitlynn brought up the classic sneeze-guard concern, Bowen replied, “Well now that you bring it up… I think we do glass sneeze guards—Subway style.”

Lily Gladstone added a practical (and relatable) note: “Do let your wedding party choose their own clothes… We’ll never wear the matching one again. Absolutely. Ever.” And for guests planning to party all night: “If you’re required to wear heels, bring a different pair of shoes for the dance floor… Just everybody have an extra pair of shoes.”

Kelly Marie Tran quickly jumped in with support: “Oh yeah.”

And Han Gi-Chan? He stole the moment with a spicy take: “For the bride… Don’t bring your real boyfriend to the picture of the wedding photo.” Lily cackled: “Don’t bring your side piece.”

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It’s that chaotic, rule-breaking energy that fuels The Wedding Banquet, a heartfelt and hilarious new rom-com from director Andrew Ahn. Inspired by Ang Lee’s 1993 classic, the film follows Min (Han Gi-Chan), who proposes a green card marriage to his best friend Angela (Kelly Marie Tran) so she can afford IVF with her partner, Lee (Lily Gladstone). When Min’s traditional grandmother surprises the couple with an over-the-top Korean wedding, the chosen family must navigate clashing cultures, closeted secrets, and the joyful mess of queer love.

With a cast that includes comedy powerhouse Bowen Yang, Oscar nominee Lily Gladstone, and fan-favorite Kelly Marie Tran, The Wedding Banquet is a reminder that life is not always a piece of cake.

See it in theaters nationwide beginning April 18.

‘Love on the Spectrum’ Star Pari Kim Talks Queer Love, Trains, and Internet Fame

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Pari Kim has become one of the breakout stars of Love on the Spectrum season three — and not just for her charming quirks, love of trains, or bubbly personality.

The 23-year-old Boston native made history on the hit Netflix dating series as part of the show’s first LGBTQ+ couple. And yes — she’s still going strong with girlfriend Tina Zhu Xi Caruso.

“It’s going really well with us. I just love her so much,” Pari told The Advocate. “She is really the Amtrak to my commuter. She’s just perfect for me.”

All Aboard for Love

Pari and Tina’s relationship blossomed on screen in the most relatable — and adorably awkward — way. In one viral scene, the pair shyly exchanged thoughts about what it might be like to kiss another girl.

“I always wonder what it would be like to kiss a girl, honestly,” Pari said during the moment. Tina replied, “Yeah. I wonder, too.” The two then stood in nervous silence, sparking a flurry of fan reactions from queer women everywhere who saw themselves in the sweet, tentative exchange.

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Thankfully, the big moment came soon after — during a romantic train ride over a scenic bridge, of course. Tina, ever thoughtful, even avoided gluten beforehand, just in case.

“Princess Charming” and a Train-Themed Wedding?

As for what’s next? The couple is dreaming big — and rail-themed.

“We talked about someday getting married and having a train-themed wedding,” Pari said. “Maybe like, rent out a private Amtrak charter train. A nice vintage steam engine would be really cool, but yeah, it’s gotta have trains in it.”

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Pari Kim and Tina Zhu Xi Caruso. Photo: Instagram (@blindsided_in_boston)

Pari affectionately refers to Tina as her “Princess Charming,” and says the relationship has only grown stronger since filming wrapped.

“I love how we both get so excited together. She’s just the sweetest, and I can always count on her. She keeps me on track — no pun intended,” she joked.

A Viral Star (and Aspiring Transit Influencer)

Since season three debuted, Pari’s life has taken a dramatic turn. Her Instagram account was briefly locked after a flood of new followers — so many that the platform flagged it as suspicious.

“Some fans want to ride the T [Boston’s subway] with me or say they’ve been touched by the show,” she said. “I just love all my fans and I hope they realize how much of an impact they make on my life.”

As a proud leader of the “Railfans” — a friend group united by a passion for public transit — Pari’s dream job would be running social media for Amtrak or Boston’s MBTA.

“I have so many great ideas I want to bring to the table,” she said. “I feel like I have a good creative vision, and they could use more diversity in their teams.”

Representation That Matters

Pari has been vocal about her intersecting identities — both autistic and queer — and says being “unapologetically both” has resonated with fans around the world.

“There’s a lot more of us out there than you think,” she said. “It’s just part of who we are.”

Though some negative comments have surfaced online, Pari isn’t fazed.

“People say, ‘You’re confused’ or ‘Your sister’s a bad influence.’ No — this is just who we are, and we don’t have to change ourselves,” she said. “Just ignore the haters and bullies because they just want to get a rise out of you. There’s always going to be way more people who love and support you.”

Pari hopes she gets the chance to return for season four, and maybe even more projects in TV or film.

“I want to continue telling my story,” she said. “And Tina has so many things she wants to share, too.”

Until then, Pari’s message to the world is simple: “There’s nothing wrong with being autistic or LGBTQ+. I’m proud to be me.”

Karla Sofía Gascón Lands New Role After ‘Emilia Pérez’ Controversy

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Actress Karla Sofía Gascón is set to return to the screen in a new role following the controversy surrounding her involvement in the 2024 film Emilia Pérez.

Gascón will play a psychiatrist who “embodies both God and the devil” in the psychological thriller The Life Lift, opposite Vincent Gallo, according to Variety. The film is the directorial debut of Italian filmmaker Stefania Rossella Grassi.

“The Life Lift” Plot

The Life Lift stars Gallo as Gabriel, a New York resident who receives messages on Post-it notes in his building’s elevator. These messages instruct him to commit murders of three other tenants who are also plotting to kill their relatives, Variety reported.

“Emilia Pérez” Controversy

Emilia Pérez, which received 13 nominations at the Oscars in 2024, was a controversial film. The film drew criticism from Mexican and transgender critics for its portrayal of their communities, and faced general audience disapproval.

 

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The controversy surrounding Gascón escalated when social media posts containing racist and bigoted statements about Muslims, George Floyd, and diversity at the Oscars resurfaced. Gascón, the first openly transgender actor to be nominated for an acting Oscar, attended the ceremony for which she was nominated for Best Actress but did not walk the red carpet.

Gascón’s Apologies

Initially, Gascón defended herself, claiming she was not hateful or racist and was being targeted by harassment. However, in March 2025, she issued a new apology through The Hollywood Reporter.

“With no excuse, and without any intention to justify any of my past actions, I apologize to all I have offended at any point in my life and throughout my journey,” Gascón stated. “I humbly ask for their forgiveness and, to honor their kindness and understanding, I promise I will commit to continuing to learn and listen, so as not to make the same mistakes in the future.”

Gallo’s Controversy

Gallo has also been the subject of controversy. Most recently, three actresses filed a complaint with SAG-AFTRA, alleging that during auditions for his upcoming film The Policeman, Gallo made lewd comments, including, “I may ask you to suck my cock onscreen, and I want an actress who is not going to put up a fight about that,” Variety reported.

Gascón’s Upcoming Projects

In addition to The Life Lift, Gascón has other upcoming projects. She is set to star in Las Mala, a Spanish-language trans fable by Oscar-winning director Armando Bó (Birdman). Gascón also filmed an Italian comedy, Men and Other Inconveniences, before Emilia Pérez, which is expected to be released soon.

Drag Brunch, Dim Sum, and Big Gay Joy: ‘The Wedding Banquet’ Knows How to Throw a Party

What do you get when you mix RuPaul’s Drag Race royalty, dim sum, bottomless mimosas, and the cast of the most joyful queer rom-com of the year? The Wedding Banquet drag brunch, of course.

On Sunday, April 13, Bleecker Street and Tremendous Communications hosted a fabulous celebration for The Wedding Banquet, the upcoming film from director Andrew Ahn. Held at CHIFA in Eagle Rock, the event was hosted by All Stars legend Ongina and featured performances by Ally Meda, Thai Theeze, and Saturn. The vibe? Full camp, full glam, and full of love.

A Reimagined Classic

In theaters April 18, The Wedding Banquet reimagines Ang Lee’s groundbreaking 1993 film with a new generation of talent and a modern twist on queer love and chosen family. The film follows Min (Han Gi-Chan), a closeted man who offers to marry his friend Angela (Kelly Marie Tran) in exchange for helping her partner afford IVF. Their secret elopement is thrown into chaos when Min’s grandmother surprises them with a lavish Korean wedding banquet.

For director Andrew Ahn, the project was deeply personal.

“The original The Wedding Banquet was the first gay movie that I ever saw. And the fact that it was a gay and Asian movie—it was very meaningful to me,” Ahn said at the brunch. “I think I really used my own personal experiences and the phase of life that I’m in to be my creative North Stars. I have a boyfriend, and we’ve been talking about getting married and talking about having kids. And it’s really hard conversations, and they’re very nuanced. And I wanted to find a way to put that in a film and both kind of make fun of it, but also really take it seriously.”

Director Andrew Ahn teases a potential 'Fire Island' sequel while preparing to release his new queer rom-com 'The Wedding Banquet,' starring Kelly Marie Tran, Lily Gladstone, and Bowen Yang.
Director Andrew Ahn teases a potential ‘Fire Island’ sequel while preparing to release his new queer rom-com ‘The Wedding Banquet,’ starring Kelly Marie Tran, Lily Gladstone, and Bowen Yang.

Drag, Dumplings, and Delight

The brunch was a celebration of everything the film stands for: joy, queer love, and community. The crowd sipped mimosas between jaw-dropping performances while the cast mingled and snapped photos under a sea of rainbow lights.

Kelly Marie Tran brought the energy, walking the red carpet in full glam and a full appetite.

“I’m so hungry and so excited to be here,” she laughed. “I want to be fed in multiple ways today.”

On taking the role, Tran said:

“I was just really excited to be a queer person telling a queer story. And that was the most exciting thing to me, and getting to celebrate this part of my identity.”

She also shared what stayed with her from the film:

“The message of having a chosen family. And there’s a line that Bobo Le says—Kendall, Chris’s cousin—says, ‘We’re not good enough alone.’ And I just think that’s such a beautiful sentiment. Together, we’re more than enough. And it’s just beautiful.”

Lily Gladstone echoed the sense of family behind the scenes.

“Charlotte did such an incredible job dressing the whole set and finding the artwork, reaching out and finding artists that would be in the home. And so I have the rug. I picked up the gardening technique that Lee uses in the background… So beyond that, just lovely group of people that I adore and upped my game and made me smile… It was just joyful.”

She added:

“This one felt like… in addition to being an incredible film, just an incredible quality-of-life sort of a thing. And it was just joyful… It’s new, little chosen family. It was everything that you want a job to be. An absolute dream.”

A Star Is Born (with Dim Sum)

For Han Gi-Chan, who plays Min, the film marks his English-language debut—and his first major audition in English.

“This is my first English film, and this was also almost first audition for me in English,” he shared. “That point actually drew my mind. And the other one is that this film has the original right, which I have never done before. This is the first time I’m doing a reimagining film, which has an original. So that was a kind of real big challenge for me, and I really wanted to be a part of it.”

He added:

“This is a story about… it’s a queer story, but also a story about a chosen family… When you’re building your own family, this is a very brave thing you should do, but this could also be a happy moment in your life.”

Asked about weddings, he got adorably romantic:

“The best thing about wedding is that there’s a huge romance in one person’s life, which you could find your own loved one and be all half of your life. So I think that’s a real romantic part when you say, ‘I take her’—that part, it’s really romantic, I guess.”

Come for the Mimosas, Stay for the Message

From the red carpet to the final death drop, the Wedding Banquet drag brunch was a glittery celebration of love, culture, and queer family. And with an all-star cast, heartfelt story, and endless reasons to cheers, the film is one we’ll be toasting to long after the credits roll.

The Wedding Banquet opens in theaters nationwide on April 18.

Andrew Ahn Teases ‘Fire Island’ Sequel and Gears Up for New LGBTQ+ Film ‘The Wedding Banquet’

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The sun might have set on Fire Island, but a second serving of the beloved queer rom-com may still be on the horizon.

Andrew Ahn, the director behind the hit 2022 LGBTQ+ film Fire Island, recently opened up about the possibility of a sequel—and while nothing’s confirmed, fans have reason to keep their beach bags packed and ready.

The Queer Classic That Sparked Joy (and Viral Memes)

Originally released on Hulu in the U.S. and Disney+ in the UK, Fire Island is a modern, gay reimagining of Pride and Prejudice, centered around two best friends—Noah (Joel Kim Booster) and Howie (Bowen Yang)—as they dive into a week of romance, friendship, and drama at the famous gay vacation spot.

The film was praised for its hilarious dialogue, heartfelt representation of queer Asian-American experiences, and thoughtful explorations of race, class, and body image. Oh, and let’s not forget the viral Marisa Tomei-inspired scene featuring Matt Rogers and Tomas Matos that lit up timelines and solidified Fire Island‘s cult status.

Naturally, fans (and let’s be honest, the entire internet) have been demanding a sequel ever since.

A Sequel? It’s in the Ether

In a recent interview with Entertainment Weekly, Ahn revealed that while a Fire Island sequel isn’t officially in development, the idea hasn’t been ruled out.

“There’s always been conversation about doing a sequel,” he said. “I don’t know if a real concrete idea has been formed yet, but there are things in the ether.”

Ahn also shared that Booster, who wrote and starred in the original film, “always jokes” that a sequel would be like And Just Like That… — the Sex and the City reboot — but “30 years later, and they’re older and gayer.”

Provincetown Wedding? Yes, Please

The dream of a sequel has popped up before. In 2023, Matt Rogers told GAY TIMES there were “immediate” conversations post-release about a follow-up set in Provincetown, with a potential wedding between Howie and Charlie taking center stage.

“It would be a really interesting continuation,” Rogers said. “You pull away from the dock, watch them dance, and you do wanna know what’s next. That is, I think, a compliment to the ensemble and the wonderful script.”

Booster echoed the sentiment in an earlier GAY TIMES interview, saying, “While I don’t know that I necessarily feel all the way inspired to write another gay vacation movie at this time, I would definitely do anything to work with this cast again.”

Still, he teased the same And Just Like That style reunion: “We’ll all return to Fire Island, and we’ll see where these characters are in 20 years.”

Andrew Ahn’s Queer Cinema Continues

Even if Fire Island 2 doesn’t land on our screens just yet, Ahn isn’t done blessing audiences with queer-centric stories.

His next film, The Wedding Banquet, hits theaters in the U.S. on April 18. A remake of Ang Lee’s 1993 classic, the updated version follows lesbian couple Angela (Kelly Marie Tran) and Lee (Lily Gladstone), who are navigating IVF challenges. Their friend Min (Gi-chan) steps in—offering to fund their next round of treatment in exchange for a green-card marriage, following a breakup with his boyfriend Chris (played by none other than Bowen Yang).

Family secrets, complicated love, and sharp humor? It’s another Ahn signature.

 

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Will the Gays Return to Fire Island?

The answer is still up in the salty, sunscreen-scented air—but as long as the cast, the fans, and the memes are ready, hope for a sequel is far from washed out.

Stay tuned… and maybe keep your Speedo handy.

Meg Stalter’s Space Spoof of Katy Perry Steals the Show After All-Female Blue Origin Launch

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The space flight may have lasted just 10 minutes, but the memes? Infinite.

While Katy Perry and Gayle King’s suborbital journey with Blue Origin sparked headlines and social chatter, it was comedian and queer icon Meg Stalter who truly launched the internet into orbit. Her Instagram spoofs poking fun at the brief space trip quickly became the highlight of the post-flight buzz, proving once again that no one parodies pop culture quite like Stalter.

A Starry Flight Becomes a Meme Magnet

Blue Origin’s all-female space crew included singer Katy Perry, CBS Mornings host Gayle King, Nobel Peace Prize nominee Amanda Nguyen, aerospace engineer Aisha Bowe, film producer Kerianne Flynn, and Lauren Sánchez—Bezos’ fiancée and Blue Origin executive, who also piloted the mission.

The flight, which lasted a blink-and-you’ll-miss-it ten minutes, crossed just past the Kármán line—the internationally recognized edge of space—before gently returning to Earth in a capsule that landed in the West Texas desert. While Blue Origin positioned the mission as a historic moment for women in space, the internet had other ideas.

Enter Meg Stalter: Meme Queen of the Galaxy

Never one to miss a moment, Meg Stalter took to Instagram shortly after the flight to share a spoof that had fans howling. In one video, she impersonated Katy Perry singing a hilariously offbeat rendition of Vanessa Carlton’s A Thousand Miles—with giggles, awkward pauses, and signature Stalter-style quirky chaos.

“If I could fly… to Saturn or Mars, Do you think… I could touch the sky?” she crooned, surrounded by sparkly filters and dramatic lighting. The video was instantly reposted across social platforms, solidifying Stalter’s bit as the unofficial encore of the space launch.

 

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In another clip, she dialed up the absurdity with a mock livestream as “Katy Perry” reporting back from her brief cosmic adventure. Cue a hilariously off-key version of What a Wonderful World by Louis Armstrong—followed by an unhinged interpretive dance to Perry’s own song, WOMAN’S WORLD.

Naturally, fans declared her the “true star of the launch.”

 

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Katy, Gayle, and the Ground-Kiss Heard ’Round the World

While Stalter dominated the comedy circuit, the flight still delivered a few meme-worthy moments of its own. After the capsule’s landing, both Katy Perry and Gayle King dramatically dropped to kiss the ground—a moment quickly turned into a meme for everything from “Monday mornings” to “surviving Mercury retrograde.”

Footage of Gayle King hesitantly approaching the rocket before takeoff also went viral, with viewers calling her energy “deeply relatable.”

Meanwhile, Jeff Bezos himself reportedly took a bit of a tumble while hurrying to greet the crew post-landing. Though it appears the astronauts missed it, the internet most certainly didn’t.

Critics Raise Eyebrows, but the Internet Delivers

Despite the lighthearted tone, the flight wasn’t without criticism. Some questioned the value of such brief missions, especially during a time of global crises. Others debated whether a 10-minute suborbital hop even qualifies as “space travel.”

But for many, that conversation took a back seat to the entertainment value—led by Stalter’s pitch-perfect parody. It’s clear: space tourism may be serious business for Jeff Bezos, but for the rest of us, it’s meme fuel.

And if Blue Origin keeps sending celebrities into the cosmos, we can only hope Meg Stalter keeps spoofing them back to Earth.

New Scholarship Honors SOPHIE’s Legacy by Empowering Emerging Female, Trans, and Non-Binary Creatives in Electronic Music

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A new scholarship fund honoring the trailblazing Scottish artist SOPHIE has been launched by We Are Moving The Needle, a nonprofit organization dedicated to advancing gender equity in the recording industry. The scholarship aims to provide financial support and access to resources for emerging female, trans, and non-binary college students pursuing careers in audio engineering and electronic music production.

The initiative, which was announced earlier this month, is part of the organization’s broader mission to dismantle barriers faced by underrepresented voices in music, particularly in male-dominated fields such as production and engineering. The scholarship fund is designed to honor SOPHIE’s legacy by nurturing a new generation of boundary-breaking creatives. “SOPHIE’s legacy is a beacon of inspiration to countless creators,” said We Are Moving The Needle in a public statement. “Her innovations continue to shape the future of music. We are thrilled to celebrate her indelible mark as it lives on in the next generation of trailblazers.”

Successful applicants will receive between $5,000 and $10,000 in financial aid, which can be used toward tuition and other education-related expenses. The scholarship is open to U.S. citizens and residents, with applications accepted through April 27, 2025.

A Legacy of Sonic Innovation

Born in Glasgow, Scotland, SOPHIE (1986–2021) was a pioneering force in the experimental pop and electronic music scenes. Known for her work as a producer, singer, and songwriter, she helped define the “hyperpop” sound with her futuristic, genre-defying approach to music. SOPHIE’s influence stretched far beyond her discography, which includes the critically acclaimed 2018 debut album Oil of Every Pearl’s Un-Insides and a posthumous self-titled release in 2024.

Tragically, SOPHIE died in January 2021 at the age of 34 after an accidental fall from a rooftop in Athens, Greece, while trying to get a better view of the full moon. Her passing was met with an outpouring of grief from fans, collaborators, and the global music community, who hailed her as a visionary and an icon of LGBTQ+ liberation.

A posthumous induction into the Resonator Hall of Fame further cemented her status as a transformative figure in the music industry. Now, this new scholarship fund seeks to extend SOPHIE’s impact by uplifting a new wave of creatives who, like her, aim to challenge convention and redefine the soundscape.

Continuing the Mission of Inclusivity

We Are Moving The Needle was founded to address the gender imbalance in music production and engineering. Since its inception, the organization has awarded over $600,000 in scholarships to women and non-binary individuals, helping them attend workshops, educational programs, and networking opportunities in the music industry.

This new fund in SOPHIE’s name is a natural extension of the nonprofit’s commitment to building a more inclusive future in music.

“We created this fund to honor SOPHIE’s unique contributions and to help others like her forge paths in an industry that too often overlooks non-traditional and marginalized voices,” said a spokesperson for the organization.

Applicants for the scholarship must be enrolled in an accredited college program and demonstrate a focus on audio engineering, music production, or electronic music. The selection committee will consider financial need, artistic vision, and a commitment to advancing diversity in music.

Charli XCX and the Power of Tribute

SOPHIE’s legacy continues to resonate with artists around the world, including long-time collaborator Charli XCX. During her speech at the 2025 BRIT Awards, where she accepted the award for Best Dance Act, Charli paid tribute to SOPHIE alongside other influential artists like Daft Punk, Aphex Twin, and Robyn.

“Someone who none of us would be here without, SOPHIE,” Charli said, highlighting the producer’s profound influence on today’s music scene.

Charli also honored SOPHIE in her latest album Brat, which features the emotionally charged track “So I.” In a recent interview with NME, she described the song as her way of processing grief and reflecting on their friendship. “There is a song on the record which talks about my relationship with SOPHIE,” Charli said. “Essentially, dealing with grief is what the song is about. It’s very real. All the lyrics are things I would text my friends.”

Their creative partnership began in 2015 with the release of Charli’s Vroom Vroom EP, produced entirely by SOPHIE. The two went on to collaborate on several tracks, including “After the Afterparty,” “No Angel,” “Girls Night Out,” “Roll With Me,” “Lipgloss,” and “Out of My Head.”

Charli’s tributes and the establishment of the scholarship fund highlight SOPHIE’s lasting influence on the industry and her role in uplifting the voices of those often left out of mainstream music narratives.

How to Apply

Eligible students interested in applying for the SOPHIE scholarship can do so through the official We Are Moving The Needle website. Applications must be submitted by April 27, 2025. In addition to financial support, recipients will join a growing network of mentees, educators, and industry professionals committed to reshaping the music world.

For more information or to apply, visit wearemovingtheneedle.org.

JoJo Siwa’s Gender Identity Moment on ‘Celebrity Big Brother’ Sparks Viewer Backlash and Privacy Debate

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Celebrity Big Brother UK is facing growing criticism from fans and LGBTQ+ advocates after airing a deeply emotional moment in which JoJo Siwa discussed her gender identity — despite saying she was “not ready” to talk about it on television.

During the April 8 episode, Siwa, 21, appeared visibly distressed as she opened up in a private conversation, revealing confusion about her gender identity and sharing that she didn’t feel ready to define herself publicly. Viewers have since taken to social media to accuse the show of exploiting a vulnerable moment and potentially pressuring the former Dance Moms star into coming out before she was ready.

“It’s something that I’m not necessarily ready to be open about,” Siwa said tearfully during a conversation that aired on national television. “It has to do with gender and how I feel… I’ve met a lot of people in my life that are non-binary, and these beautiful non-binary people are who I feel the most like.”

Despite her clear discomfort, Big Brother included the scene in the final edit, leading to an online uproar from fans who argued that the conversation should have been kept private. The star recently had moments on the show with Mickey Rourke that went viral for his hurtful and homophobic comments about the ‘Dance Moms’ alum.

Fans Condemn the Show for Airing the Scene

Social media was immediately flooded with reactions, many of which expressed concern and disappointment with ITV and the Big Brother production team.

“Only me who thinks it’s totally out of order for CBB to air?” one viewer wrote on X (formerly Twitter). “JoJo is obviously upset and uncomfortable to the point of saying ‘it’s not something I want to say about myself yet,’ but it’s been broadcast on national television? ITV could’ve easily cut that from the edit.”

Another fan wrote, “They should have edited that conversation with JoJo out. It seemed pretty clear she didn’t want that out there yet. She deserves to share her journey when she’s ready.”

Others questioned whether the show had unintentionally “forced” Siwa to come out as non-binary, with comments like: “Did Big Brother accidentally force JoJo Siwa to come out as non-binary?” and “JoJo just came out as non-binary on Big Brother and I don’t think she meant to.”

Despite the criticism, Big Brother offered a brief acknowledgment of Siwa’s courage on-air. “JoJo, thank you for being so honest and sharing with Big Brother,” the voice of the show told her. Siwa, through tears, responded, “Of course. It’s important to be honest, and I think it’s important to show that it’s okay to not know.”

Siwa’s Identity Journey: Public but Personal

Siwa first came out publicly as pansexual in 2021 and has described herself as gay in recent interviews. She is currently in a relationship with Kath Ebbs, a non-binary content creator and LGBTQ+ advocate. The two have been open about their love and support for one another, and Siwa has often spoken about her ongoing journey of self-discovery.

In a recent episode of the We Need To Talk podcast hosted by Paul C. Brunson, recorded just before her entrance into the Celebrity Big Brother house, Siwa discussed the evolving nature of her sexuality and identity.

“That journey is one I’m still on for sure,” she said. “I never thought twice about anything until I met people who made me feel differently.”

Siwa shared anecdotes from her teenage years, including falling for a girl she met on a cruise ship — a moment that prompted her to begin questioning her identity. She also described her early experiences with understanding attraction and how that helped her discover her truth.

“[That girl] was the first person I said, ‘I have a crush on a girl’ to,” Siwa said. “My mom asked, ‘Do you like her as a friend or as more than a friend?’ and I can’t lie to save my life, so I said, ‘More than a friend.’”

She also reflected on the moment pop icon Elton John reached out to her after her public coming out. “He just wanted to say how proud he was of me,” she said. “I thought it was all positive… and then I scrolled and saw how homophobic people still are. That was eye-opening.”

The Larger Conversation About Consent in Reality TV

This controversy has reignited broader conversations about ethics and consent in reality television, especially when it comes to LGBTQ+ participants. Critics argue that while reality TV thrives on intimate moments, producers have a responsibility to protect the emotional well-being of their cast — especially when dealing with sensitive issues like gender identity.

LGBTQ+ advocacy groups have also weighed in, emphasizing the importance of allowing individuals to come out on their own terms.

“No one should be pushed to define or explain their identity on someone else’s timeline — especially not for entertainment,” one advocate wrote on X.

As the debate continues, JoJo Siwa has not yet released a public statement regarding the episode. Meanwhile, ITV and the producers of Celebrity Big Brother have also remained silent, leaving fans awaiting an official response to growing concerns about privacy, consent, and representation.

Inside The Lonely Planet’s First-Ever LGBTQ+ Travel Guide to Help Queer Travelers Explore the World with Confidence and Pride

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With queer travel on the rise but information still scarce for LGBTQ+ explorers, Lonely Planet is stepping in with a game-changing new release. On March 18, the iconic travel publisher launched its first-ever print guide dedicated entirely to LGBTQ+ travel: Lonely Planet’s LGBTQ+ Travel Guide: Interviews, Itineraries, & Inspiration from Queer Insiders in 50 Proud Places Around the Globe.

More than just a list of friendly places, the book is a rich collection of personal stories and travel wisdom from queer locals across six continents. Written by Alicia Valenski — a queer, neurodivergent travel writer recently named a “Travel Trailblazer” by Attitude Magazine — the guide offers an authentic, inclusive and intersectional look at destinations where LGBTQ+ travelers can feel safe, celebrated and fully themselves.

“This book is about connection,” said Valenski. “It’s about finding joy, community, and safety wherever you go — and hearing directly from those who live and love in these destinations every day.”

A Personal and Practical Guide to the World

At over 300 pages, Lonely Planet’s LGBTQ+ Travel Guide serves as both a beautifully designed coffee table book and a resource-packed manual. It covers more than 50 destinations — from São Paulo’s vibrant gayborhoods to Melbourne’s artsy alleyways — and features interviews with queer locals, curated itineraries, and cultural insights meant to empower travelers to go beyond the usual Pride parades.

Each chapter includes “Know Before You Go” boxes highlighting essential information such as local languages, currency, legal rights, Pride events, and seasonal travel tips. Whether you’re planning an island escape, a high-adrenaline adventure, or a family-friendly retreat, there’s a section tailored to your travel style and identity.

Valenski brings her own lived experience to the pages, offering tips for navigating the unique challenges that queer and neurodivergent travelers often face — from avoiding discrimination to understanding unfamiliar social norms and accessing emergency support abroad.

“Exploring the world as a queer person isn’t always as simple as booking a flight,” she said. “This guide was written with the understanding that queer travelers still face hurdles — and that information, safety, and visibility matter.”

Responding to a Growing Demand for Inclusive Travel

The release comes at a critical time. According to travel analytics site Globetrotter, queer travel spending reached $218 billion globally before the COVID-19 pandemic and is projected to soar to $568.5 billion by 2030. Gen Z is leading the charge — a 2021 UK census found that 6.9% of Gen Z respondents identified as LGBTQ+ — yet many still struggle to find destination-specific queer travel information.

In a recent Gay Times survey of 15,000 LGBTQ+ individuals, 65% reported difficulty accessing queer travel advice when planning trips.

“Queer travelers are looking for resources that go beyond rainbow flags,” said Chris Zeiher, Lonely Planet’s Senior Director of Trade Sales and Marketing. “We recognized there was a need for something that truly understands our community — not just the fun and freedom of travel, but the realities too. We made sure this book was community-led, informative, and full of surprises.”

And surprising it is. While popular LGBTQ+ hotspots like New York City, Berlin, and Sydney are included, Valenski made a point to spotlight lesser-known gems, from queer-friendly hideaways in South Africa to safe havens in Southeast Asia. The result is a guide that challenges assumptions and widens the map for queer adventurers.

Representation, Visibility, and Safety

One of the most impactful aspects of the guide is its emphasis on storytelling. Contributors — from artists and activists to nightlife hosts and small business owners — offer personal accounts of life in their cities, giving readers a heartfelt connection to each place.

The book also includes practical safety tips, resources for emergency situations, and up-to-date information on local LGBTQ+ rights and laws. For first-time travelers or those navigating identity on the road, it’s an indispensable toolkit.

“There’s a power in being seen,” said Valenski. “This guide is a reminder that no matter where you are in the world, you are not alone. There is a global community waiting to welcome you.”

About the Author

Alicia Valenski is a queer, neurodivergent writer and passionate advocate for inclusive travel. Her work has appeared in outlets like Condé Nast Traveler and Them, and she’s quickly becoming a leading voice in LGBTQ+ travel journalism. She brings both humor and heart to her work, creating spaces where readers can feel seen, safe, and celebrated.

For Valenski, writing the guide was as much a personal journey as a professional one.

“I wanted this book to feel like stepping into a friend’s arms,” she said. “That’s the kind of travel experience every queer person deserves.”

Is This Coachella The Gayest One Yet? The Beaches Have to Agree with That Statement

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Toronto’s rock darlings The Beaches made their Coachella debut this weekend, and they didn’t just bring the music — they brought the queer party with them. Fresh off the release of their new single “Last Girls At The Party” featuring Aussie alt-pop powerhouse G Flip, the band lit up the Gobi tent on Sunday with a performance that was both electric and deeply personal.

“We’re tired, sweaty, and kissed a lot of girls — so yeah, it’s been a weekend,” laughed Leandra Earl after their set speaking with Gayety. “It’s definitely the gayest Coachella I’ve ever been to. I’d say that confidently.” And she should know — the band has become a loud and proud voice for queer representation in alt rock, and they’re clearly thriving in the desert heat.

“If You Don’t Think Straight…”

The band’s new track, “Last Girls At The Party,” is already climbing the charts, debuting this week at No. 35 on Billboard Canada’s Modern Rock chart. The performance at Coachella was a highlight of the weekend, thanks in large part to G Flip joining them onstage to deliver the second verse, which includes the now-iconic line: “If you don’t think straight, it’s your lucky day, I’m open late.”

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SEE YOU SOON @coachella !! 3:45 Gobi stage babyy #coachella #bffs #ontour #newmusic

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It’s the kind of lyric that lands perfectly at an event where queerness isn’t just accepted — it’s celebrated. “There’s such a community here,” Earl said. “Even if you come alone, you won’t stay that way. It’s all love.”

From Viral Hit to Desert Stage

G-Flip didn’t just join for the new single. They came back out for “Blame Brett,” the band’s massive 2023 viral hit that turned The Beaches into household names. From heartbreak anthem to queer healing moment, the song took on new life at Coachella — with help from G-Flip and even a surprise cameo from Canadian comedian Veronika Slowikowska, who joined the band in a playful backstage TikTok to mark the occasion.

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@G FLIP’s perspective at coachella!!!!! U GUYS WERE INSANE THANK U<3 @veronika_iscool #coachella #ontour #livemusic #newmusic

♬ Blame Brett – The Beaches

Lead singer Jordan Miller called the moment a “full circle” experience. “We’ve always dreamed of playing Coachella. I was just trying to take it all in and not let the nerves take over,” she said. “Also, I took a mushroom pill, so vibes were high.”

Still the Last Girls Standing

With leather pants, desert heat, and mushroom microdoses, The Beaches leaned fully into the chaos. “I’m definitely trying to be the last girl at Coachella,” Earl joked, referencing their single’s title. “I’ve been raging all weekend. I’m not stopping now.”

Kylie Miller and Leandra Earl of The Beaches perform at the Gobi Tent during the 2025 Coachella Valley Music and Arts Festival at Empire Polo Club on April 13, 2025 in Indio, California.
INDIO, CALIFORNIA – APRIL 13: (L-R) Kylie Miller and Leandra Earl of The Beaches perform at the Gobi Tent during the 2025 Coachella Valley Music and Arts Festival at Empire Polo Club on April 13, 2025 in Indio, California. (Photo by Emma McIntyre/Getty Images for Coachella)

They’ll get another shot next weekend when they return for Coachella’s second round on April 20. And with their new album No Hard Feelings dropping August 29, the summer looks even busier. Exclusive invite-only DJ sets are planned for fans who pre-save the record — the band’s way of throwing more parties for the people who’ve been with them from the start.

So yeah, it might just be the gayest Coachella ever — and The Beaches are here for all of it.